I find it super attractive when a man can let go .. like not feel he has to be the protector or dominant one, when he can allow me to be the big spoon, it brings me a lot of peace and comfort because i feel men love human touch and the feeling of being babied in a sense that they can just relax and be free to live in the moment not carrying all of life’s troubles and issues on their shoulders. Plus, women know when you need some attention and touch, playing in a man’s hair or rubbing his chest is pure bliss lol.
for the men that see this, is it weird that i enjoy this?
ohh don’t get me wrong i still need to be held and babied too; but i feel the need to switch off and make the man feel extremely cared for and wanted too, because i’m a all in type of person, so if we both can’t walk away from the situation feeling 100% better then i don’t feel satisfied.