So far over a month and I have only received 1 message? 0 Appointments
Unfortunately they rarely find clients. Most women can find plenty of men for cuddling at no charge. Some women might hire a Pro though, they’ve posted about it here. But the fee that Pro Men have to pay is generally more than they will earn. You can advertise in the Cuddle Requests section of the forum, you don’t want it to seem like you’re advertising (strictly against TOS) here. Also there’s a world of information stickied at the top of each discussion. You’ll learn more by reading those topics. Best of luck.
Hi I need help from my fellow cuddle community I would like to know if I need to redo my profile or anything because I’m not getting any offers I have had one session and I thought it went well I would like to get more and make this achievable any help and onsite would be greatly grateful
There is almost no demand for male professional cuddlers, unfortunately.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/10997/male-pros-how-has-it-been-for-you/p1
There are a lot more helpful pinned threads in the Pro Cuddling forum.
Edit to add: I will say, compared to most pro cuddler profiles, yours is pretty bare - it doesn't give potential clients much info. I would recommend searching for pro cuddlers in your area with a large number of karma (ratings) to get an idea of what info is most useful for clients. Just don't copy anyone's profile verbatim without their permission.
You have like.... No info in your profile.
so can anyone tell me how this works how do I find the people who wants to be consider me their cuddlers as a male cuddler
How does it work? Well, to start, what are you offering that is compelling? What makes you stand out? If you are trying to draw female clients....who can generally find people to cuddle for free......how are you marketing yourself in such a way that they will at least consider hiring you for a session?
I have a question for the male professional cuddles on here. How do you go about finding new clients? Do I need to be more proactive in my search and be the first to reach out to potential clients, “ make the first move “? Or is it more of a waiting game where I just sit here and patiently wait to be picked? Any advice, suggestions, or insight on the matter would help and be greatly appreciated.
As a Pro you are not allowed to initiate contact. Against TOS. It’s helpful to review the agreement you signed and also read the pinned discussion for male pros, if you haven’t already. Only if someone has viewed your profile, then you may contact them. They have shown interest so it’s allowed. I’m guessing based on many other men talking about their experience as a pro, they pretty much have to accept other men as clients or have no clients at all. Sad reality I guess but best of luck and maybe it could work out for you, I’m only guessing based on forum discussions.
Hey @Carrie_Anne thank you for answering and thank you for the well wishes. I haven’t yet read the pinned discussion post but will be sure to do so. I wouldn’t mind having male clients at all, it’s having none that gets me lol. But thank you again for your insight it’s appreciated.
@Kingandre07 if you haven't already read through the site TOS, the FAQ, the Help Center articles, the contracts for pros & clients, and all the stickied threads in the General and Pro Cuddling forums - I highly recommend doing so. Most questions will have answers there.
I also recommend that all new pros look up their local ordinances & state laws regarding running a small business, and federal & state tax laws. Ignorance of the laws unfortunately doesn't protect you from consequences of breaking them.
@Kingandre07 This question has been asked before, so I merged the conversation with a previous thread.
I recommend this for the first thing you read:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/10997/male-pros-how-has-it-been-for-you
@Kingandre07 i hope it works out for you!
Just a reminder to others, I see some questions in this thread about being a Professional Cuddler and how to get Clients being asked by people who aren’t currently professional cuddlers…you can’t charge to cuddle unless you are a tagged Pro. You must apply to be a Pro and be accepted, you will have the pink “P” on your profile picture and then you can charge to cuddle.
@cuddlefaery & @BlueIris thank you both for the additional information and merging the thread. I’ll be sure to read through those more thoroughly.