I was talking to a cuddle person and when I logged back in today, i discovered their account had been banned. Just wondering what it would require to get an account banned in the first place 😂
Usually a spammer/scammer, or they did something as simple as break the rules (ie seeking or offering non-platonic services)
I had a contact today asking for extras ! A BJ or a hand job 🙈 what part of platonic non sexual cuddles is that !!
@amanda54971 at this point I'm really convinced some people don't know what 'platonic' means. Or they don't read the rules, don't care about the rules, or think the rules aren't real and this is a hook-up site in disguise 🥸 🪦
@tristan406 You’re absolutely correct!
@jasonxx95 There’s a whole host of things that could get you banned!
Banned for behaving badly , whatever the bad may be
@tristan406 They play dumb, ignore the rules, feel entitled especially if they’re paying and make a conscious decision to not use self control.
@jasonxx95 If it was a pro they may have been booking then canceling the booking after phone numbers were exchanged to avoid the 15% fee the site charges, giving out a phone number before booking, or dozens of other reasons. Not everything is because of non-platonic activities, although there is a lot of that as well. Bottom line is you will never know.
had a contact today asking for extras ! A BJ or a hand job 🙈 what part of platonic non sexual cuddles is that !!
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@amanda54971 Yeah, horndog Dudebros are everywhere (on the Internet) even on a platonic cuddling site such as Cuddle Comfort. Just report them when make it about their genitals. Be safe and best of luck! 😁👍
Anytime a person I’ve been messaging gets banned, Cuddle Comfort sends me a helpful dossier. I try to read the “Facts Known to Cuddle Comfort” section closely. But to be honest, sometimes I’m more interested in the “rumors and innuendo” section. The only time Cuddle Comfort opts not to send me the dossier, is when the reasons for the ban are none of my damn business.
I just hire a private investigator . Not a red flag at all
@pmvines no one's privates are supposed to be getting investigated on this site 😂
Point taken 😂
@tristan406 I laughed so hard OMG
Not following the rules
@tristan406 You are correct. One terrible cuddler argued with me about what platonic means. He said it only meant “no intercourse”. 🙄
@tristan406 😂😂😂😂
He said it only meant “no intercourse”
That’s because TL;DR. After that he never read the other 93 no’s on the list.
A bannrf cudduler is one offering sexual servivces or has broken one of the rules of CC. it could be for a number of trasons: scamming c;ients, wearing inappropriate attire while cuddlng, kissing. having sex, etc.
Off topic. - BlueIris
@MonkeyNeedsAHug wow really? why then I have never gotten a dossier on a banned cuddler? That's not fair. Banned clients can easily create a different profile and continue doing what they were banned for. It is not that easy for a pro to create another profile cause we need to get approved by admins. We pro's need to know all the info on banned cuddlers to watch out when they create a new profile and ry to reach out. Dissapointed the admins are not watching out for us pro's.
Website keeps track of ip address if you create a new account with same ip it will get automatically banned again. Admins have a multiple ways to track fake accounts
@BohemianBlonde Your report is indeed in the queue and will be investigated and acted on as soon as a moderator can get to it. Sometimes that does take a couple days.
@BohemianBlonde it was a joke. No one gets a report.
The site admins are unpaid volunteers and are no more responsible for your personal safety than any other social media site that allows independent contractors to do business.
I would make sure you read all the forums on personal safety and ask specific questions in the pros section on how to vet people properly.
Because you’re new, you’re going to get swarmed with messages and the bulk of them will not have the best intentions.
@RadiantHugs it was taken care of. Thank you!
Why do established pros get banned? There are pros with lots of karma who get banned. Not pros who just joined but established pros.
@trixster Same reason as a new accounts they broke the rules. They either broke one of the big ones which only takes one tile or they broke a smaller ones multiple times.
You can read the TOS and the rules for pros in the pros tab.
You will never get to know the specific rule someone broke but it is always cause they broke the rules. Just cause someone has karma doesn’t mean they’re sticking to the TOS.
Karma isn’t everything. It just means someone lived to tell the tale. A client who isn’t following the TOS isn’t going to report a pro who isn’t following the TOS.
And now the person that created this conversation is banned.. I had a session with her a month ago and it went well, nothing out of the ordinary happened.. And had another session scheduled for this weekend,I guess at the end of the day you really don't know who you can trust.
This comment has caused a significant off topic derailment of the thread where it was originally posted, so moving it to the Why Were They Banned thread. - BlueIris
@jonnyquest I’m wondering in all sincerity if that’s the only reason for banning.
@jonnyquest
Likely was seeing 2 different types of people. Those seeking sex and those who weren't. You didn't know she was doing that because you weren't looking for it from her. Reminds me of someone I had seen for a massage about a half dozen times, then I saw her name pop up online associated with completely different types of massage . I was pretty surprised because I thought she gave a really great legit massage , and never had any inkling of that from her.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/25779/why-might-a-persons-account-be-banned
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/26146/fast-ban