Cuddling a pregnant girl

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Hi everyone! I’m wondering if anyone has an opinion on cuddling a pregnant woman. I haven’t seen that as something on here but life happens ig 😅 do you think it’s a good idea to take a break from cuddling then or will a pregnant person still get business as a pro cuddler?

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  • lovingspoonfulllovingspoonfull
    edited July 13

    Rationally it shouldn’t matter; just be safe and make sure you choose good and respectful partners.

    I cuddled someone that was pregnant but didn’t know until after we had connected and booked, I decided it didn’t matter and we had a great time.

    She did say she didn’t tell me until relatively late though because some potential cuddlers had fetishized her pregnancy and made her uncomfortable. 😳 so there’s that.

    Just vet use your judgment and be safe.

  • TxTomTxTom

    As long as care is taken to not put pressure or weight on the baby, it should be fine.

  • m2567m2567
    edited July 13

    I guess I'm not answering your question directly. For me, pregnancy isn't the issue. I just wouldn't feel as comfortable cuddling someone if I knew they had a partner. On the other hand if someone did have a partner, I would appreciate honesty upfront.

    I agree with @TxTom about not putting pressure or weight on the baby.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    A nine month niche market.

  • JubalJubal
    edited July 13

    I've met two pros over the past few years from the site who were pregnant. I did notice that each one had more difficulty finding comfortable positions, but otherwise dont see a problem with it.

    You'll no doubt receive alot of (good) advice about being more cautious in your screening of potential cuddlers.

  • dan_bluedan_blue

    I wouldn’t care

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I cuddled a pregnant pro once. That fetus had wandering hands so no face to face.

  • SpicyNSweetSpicyNSweet

    @m2567 keep in mind not everyone who is pregnant is in a relationship

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    Definitely proceed with caution, since pregnancy, as mentioned above, can be a kink for some people. I think being honest is important, but how potential clients react is going to tell you a lot. Too many questions or them wanting to paw at your tummy if you meet, and kick 'em to the curb.

    Also, bear in mind the high number of people who are sexually assaulted in this realm, and consider if the risk of any form of assault is worth the risk to your baby.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • FirmPresenceFirmPresence
    edited July 14

    I cuddled with a pregnant woman recently. It was perfectly fine. I just had to be careful around the belly. As for a pro, she should just upfront about it before they book (assuming sh'e far enough in that it affects the cuddling).

  • trysdettrysdet
    edited July 14

    It happened to me. She told me after our therapy session. I mean I was pretty confused because I had every reason to believe she was single as we had met previously and she put that on her profile as well. I wasn't really sure why she was telling me as it was as I was leaving but I was supportive to her. She seemed to trust me with important information.

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101

    it's all the same to me. as long as she feels safe.

  • pmvinespmvines

    Hey why not it's a two for one

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug

    I would keep seeing a pregnant cuddle pro if we already had a relationship.

  • penguin34penguin34

    As someone who has had two children, I couldn't even think how someone would be comfortable having cuddle sessions while pregnant, but to each their own I suppose. I am glad people feel well enough to be considering it. I wouldn't like the idea of "another person ' being there. Getting the creeps just thinking about this post! Oh well, I am glad those days are behind me. 😌

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Well Ancestry says I have 50% Amoeba DNA so I am pregnant half the time.

  • Turbo1982Turbo1982

    Being someone who wanted to have children but won't have the opportunity I think it would be a great experience to cuddle someone who is pregnant

  • alyhugsalyhugs
    edited July 17

    Notice how majority of people commenting above are men. And someone said it’s a two for one.🥴

  • wanacuddle85wanacuddle85
    edited July 17

    Personally, as a pro, I would probably consider taking a break, except for Regular cuddlers.. I’ve had some stuff happened to me, though that was not very pleasant so I would imagine being pregnant that would be even scarier and I wouldn’t want my baby subjected to that… nervous system still developing. I don’t want my baby kept as calm as possible.

    I’d be mainly worried about kinks, as well as I’ve been thrown into a wall now I get most cuddlers arnt like that hence why I am still here.it does happen though!

  • cuddlefaerycuddlefaery

    Some of these comments verge on sounding like a fetish 😒 that would be my big concern, besides general safety concerns

  • DtheJinnDtheJinn
    edited July 17

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  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @snugglesafe8 I think you might have a marketing hook that you could sell. “Start cuddling now and receive a free photo for each monthly cuddle! Nine month cuddle package!”

    You could pay for the diapers that way.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne
    edited July 17

    @cuddlefaery
    Exactly what I thought.
    Weird for someone above to comment - I’ve never had kids so I would like to cuddle with a pregnant woman.
    I mean it might have been an innocent comment but just so you know guys - some of this sounds creepy to many women here who often receive some very fetishized messages because of being a mom and it tells us all we need to know about them.

  • BellaAineBellaAine
    edited July 17

    You would probably get more business because there are a lot of men who fantasize about pregnant women or the idea of caring for them. Personally, I would never consider cuddling as a pro or enthusiast while pregnant. For me, the risk to my unborn child would outweigh any financial benefit. I know that interest is real because I had more men pursue me romantically while I was pregnant than when I wasn't, even though I didn't make myself available. I was just minding my own business. I was not single and I was definitely creeped out. I'm creeped out by this whole thread. I feel like this belongs in the Pro forum.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I don’t think it was weird that men responded because she was asking if she would still get business if pregnant. Ostensibly men are probably her main clients pregnant or not. But I suppose there are men who would turn it into a fetish. But there are fetishes for the most mundane things.

    I personally would not want to hire a pregnant pro. I would be too conscious that she is pregnant, probably overheating half the time, and almost certainly uncomfortable. Saying this I don’t believe a pregnancy is conducive to providing the best cuddle experience for anyone.

  • rootedhealingrootedhealing

    Well, this thread has certainly covered many angles.

    I came for the question and stayed for the sociology experiment.

    I was also wondering whether anyone had already made the “two for one” joke… and of course they had.

    On a more serious note, I can imagine some clients finding it difficult to fully relax because they'd be worried about causing discomfort or inadvertently putting pressure where they shouldn't. Ultimately, I think this is one of those situations where the individuals involved are best placed to decide. The wellbeing of the baby is naturally part of that decision too, alongside the comfort and safety of both the professional and the client. If everyone feels informed, comfortable and respected, with good screening, open communication, clear boundaries and thoughtful positioning, then it's really about what feels right for them.

  • BearBear

    @snugglesafe8 the op as deactivated their account, so I guess she chose not to cuddle.

    @wanacuddle85 had the best answer imo if choosing to cuddle.

    @TheFunCartel in a rare moment in time had a pretty serious and accurate response imo.

    Part of me would be apprehensive about somehow needing to be cautious because of the baby. Part of me would also be focused on wanting to possibly caring for the pregnant mom as well the baby. Which kind of would be the opposite of what I would go to a professional cuddler for. Which is to get my comfort met.

    If this was a friend who was pregnant and just needed to be held or such for their own comfort, I would do it in a heartbeat.

  • MelNYCMelNYC

    @m2567 I’m asking this in good faith, not picking…why would it matter to you if a pro has a partner? Genuinely curious.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc

    Is she going to be charging double?

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @cuddlebudbklyn It matters to a lot of people for different reasons. Answers can be found here.

    https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/21244/why-is-relationship-status-a-thing

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