I had a pro send a message back to me after clicking her profile asking if the bounty on my head was still good. I said no, I used that roll up a while back.
I often look at random profiles, people that active in the forums. I like to look at other pros after a potential cuddler has decided not to meet up with me, I like to check out who they chose instead. Just bring nosey! 😂
There’s definitely a lot of reasons that I look at someone’s profile, pure curiosity, interest, boredom. So I wouldn’t read too much into it.
I'm not paying until I have the money to pay you please don't solicit unwanted cuddles and messages for bookings thank you if I was a rich individual it will be another story
@Mrmars688 Please report any pros who initiate contact with you (anyone whose profile you’ve never visited) because that’s illegal/not allowed. If you have visited their profile then they can message you because that’s considered showing interest on your part. That’s allowed.
Already reported a few people thanks 👍🏼
Yes I too get men also looking at my profile. I think it's two fold, 1) Karma and 2) because we are in these community questions.
@chococuddler60 this makes sense. I can see this being the main reasons. But, there’s probably also a long list of other odd reasons. There are a couple accounts that come up every time I’m active here and they never reach out. Just a quiet, weirdly reliable profile visit.
Personally it doesn’t matter to me. Shout out the lurkers!
If I pass by don't be rude say hi lol jkjk But I do click back
I visit a ton of profiles pros and non pros. i am kinda weird I enjoy reading. I am the oddball on actual dating sites that I give a lot of info. I hate when people have nothing on there profile it irks me.
Not gonna lie, I do feel self conscious about visiting another person's profile just based that the site does keep track of that. I'm a naturally curious person and just like dude above me I have a habit of reading the details of someone's profile, especially when they put in the work of giving it great detail. Though I know there are people who would feel a type of way with some rando snooping around in their profile so I do exercise some restraint in my "habit".
Now as far as other people viewing my profile, it don't bother me much, feel welcome. 😂Mine is pretty descriptive and defines who I am as far as my interests and personality goes.
@SelfMadeJay I fat finger so many profiles that it’s comical. But I agree, it makes me self-conscious because so many are triggered by visitors or question why I came by. Hate to say it, but it’s literally a lack of finger coordination most times.
Sometimes I visit a bunch of profiles just to read karma and see other people interacting in a positive way. It gives me the exact opposite feeling to what I have when I watch the news.
@Comet85 compersion instead of schadenfreude or masochism?
I realized I also check profiles if I see a city I'm unfamiliar with or if they share a name with a city nearby. I'm too curious to not try and sate that.
@JustAGuy215 Same! Doesn’t everyone have a Springfield nearby?
@TheFunCartel Lol yup, mine is about 3-4 hours away. There's a Gainesville about 20 minutes from me and I get excited when I see someone is from there, but it usually ends up being the one in Florida.
Just had a Chandler mixup but it led to a very nice opportunity to meet a new (very remote) cuddler. Maybe not as common as Springfield!
I was about to say there's no Springfield in California... But then I double checked and I stand corrected. It's nearby Columbia - another common one I did not know we had. 🤯