I'm just fed up with jerks who after a couple of NICE messages, just block me? (so I block them back) is anyone even SERIOUS about meeting here?
There are plenty of serious people here, but I'm afraid you're in a minority of a minority. There aren't many men who cuddle other men on this site.
It can help to reframe the blocking: it's not ghosting, it's them communicating a hard boundary and saving you both from potentially incompatible meetings. Rejection is rarely about you and usually about the other person.
It looks like you're fairly new to the site - it can take some time to find compatible people and build trust and connection to where people feel comfortable cuddling. For many enthusiasts (people who don't pay for or get paid for cuddling), it can take weeks or months to hit their stride. Keep trying! Narrowing your search to people more likely to respond can help if you haven't used the search filters already (i.e. men who cuddle other men, are within your desired distance, aren't pros, and have been active within the past week). Just keep in mind: the vast majority of users here are straight men seeking to cuddle women, so any of us who don't fit that model have to find the proverbial needle in a haystack sometimes.
If you haven't already, reading through the site TOS, the FAQ, the Help Center articles, the contracts for pros & clients, and all the stickied threads in the General and Pro Cuddling forums. Engaging in other parts of the forums is a great way to make friends in the community and find answers to questions you didn't even know you had.
Wishing you better luck in your search!
Ghosts are scary.