I put in a number of requests and conversation starters to try and find a woman to cuddle with me. Nothing back. One time about a month ago and then she just disappeared. I don’t get it. Is this site not on lol?
Welcome, @CuddleBug1969 ! It can take time to develop connections, especially if you're seeking an enthusiast rather than a pro. It can help sometimes when doing a search to narrow down to active in the last week/month, as those people will be a lot more likely to respond than someone who has been inactive for months.
Since it seems you may be fairly new here, I highly recommend reading through the site TOS, the FAQ, the Help Center articles, the contracts for pros & clients, and all the stickied threads in the General and Pro Cuddling forums.
There are a lot of good resources in the forums on how to have better success finding cuddle partners, and detailed experiences others have had to help give you an idea on timelines.