Female activity

fuddman1fuddman1
in General
Not to be a stick in the mud, but if there really is a need for this kind of thing, you'd think the female non-professionals would check their profile more often than every 3+ months. Even with going outside my comfort zone to search farther away, most if not all the women i have seen (pro or not) haven't even viewed their page in months. how am i supposed to find a buddy (pro or not) with this kind of traffic. anyone else have this problem?

Comments

  • psilocuddlepsilocuddle
    No point for them to login if there's no client activity.  Try sending them a message and hope they see the email notification.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    It sounds like maybe you live in an area of low activity?I live in Southern California and luckily, there are several Pros and non-pros here that check their profiles regularly. If I were you, I would look into other sites where maybe I could find a cuddler and it doesn't have to be a site dedicated to cuddling. 
  • BrandiBrandi
    sorry that you have a deadzone, fudd! hopefully with 2017 being a new year and a bunch of time for a bunch of trends, maybe cuddling will reach its climax and will gain lots of new active members, when I first went on here, not sure how active it was but it didnt seem to be nearly as poppin as it is right now. Word of mouth for advertisement is all we can do, and make is a beautiful community to join.
    Best wishes and I hope you eventually find that girl cuddler for ya fudd! <3

  • KramPercKramPerc
    It is what it is. Sometimes people create accounts just to see what the site is like. Maybe they had a change of heart and wanted something different than just cuddling. Maybe they've gotten a ton of negative messages of harassment and aren't comfortable with that. There could be various reasons why they leave their profile left for dead but we shouldn't judge them for it. Hopefully you will get more activity in your area.
  • JRoseJRose
    I would LOVE to see this community grow! Perhaps it is a bit ahead of its time, but if we make an effort to share, educate and do a little outreach, I think we can really help to get things off the ground. It's a brilliant concept and the site is user-friendly. I know there are tons of people who could benefit from this, but are unaware that it even exists! :D
  • [Deleted User]gudrun (deleted user)
    I would like to mention that I do respond in a timely manner to all messages. Even to the ones that I consider to be  a no-go. My motto is, treat others the way you want to be treated.
  • docgatorbdocgatorb
    I think that it is more understandable if a non-pro is interested for a while and then leaves without closing their profile.The volume of activity was very low several years ago (yes, the activity has definitely increased) and some people simply gave up. In contrast, the professional designation only came into effect maybe a year ago or so. Keep in mind that you don't have to sign on to be alerted of messages, so send your ,messages anyway. One does have to sign on to see the forum comments, so they won't reach anyone through the forums who is only awaiting notification.

    Besides spreading news about the website through word of mouth and links, contributing comments in the forum increases the activity of the website and elevates the position of websites. Popular websites are shown before the less popular sites, so participate in the discussions.
  • jeff53jeff53
    although a bit of a bummer - technically female cuddler's wouldn't have to be active on the site.

    You are able to be notified by the website when a message is sent to you.  I get notifications to my phone from my email when people send me a message.

    you should send a message anyway to anyone near you despite the time they haven't been on here. I sent a message to one woman who hadn't logged in in 3 months and the next day she logged in and viewed my profile.  She didn't respond, but I figure that was because I did not fit the catagory of what she was looking for in a cuddle partner.  You never know unless you try.

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