Tipping

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  • snuggle554321snuggle554321
    By the way, if we could put the comments of cameras, jeans and other topics that have been brought up extremely frequently that would also be greatly appreciated. I kind of feel like that horse has been beaten to death already. We get your point. You've made it clear. But just like you guys don't appreciate us generalizing about men, it also doesn't make the true pros feel very good when they get generalized too. I personally have started regretting asking for peoples opinions on topics because it seems to be taken too far afterwards. I value my clients. That's why I asked questions.  But I don't want to contribute to threads very much anymore because I don't want to have to deal with the repercussions if they aren't taken in the manner in which they were meant.  I also think all of these negative comments towards pros could possibly turn people away from this site.  Most pros are women. So many negative comments about pros makes a lot of guys seem like they don't think they're really highly of women specially when topics have already been brought up, discussed and yet are still continually being brought up.  Some guys have mentions that they have gotten turned down by pros or don't even get responses from  pros or non-pros seem surprised. Yet a lot of times they  are the ones that continue to make so many negative comments about pros.  Why not make more positive comments about pros and many women that you have come across? That will help show us what you like and appreciate and very possibly help you get what you desire.  I am NOT trying to start anything! I am NOT trying to call anyone out (that's why I didn't mention any names!) or anything like that! I am simply trying to express my opinion, feelings, thoughts and give a possible solution to resolve some possible issues for other people who might be too afraid to comment on this thread's because they feel like they will be attacked for it.  I DEFINITELY think that you guys should be able to vent and express your frustrations! But let's just try to keep it from going too far. I know I would appreciate it. 
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    edited March 2017
    Your tip is the pleasure of having my company 

    and the the negative comments about pros were basically negative comments about 3 pros, the rest are awesome.
  • [Deleted User]navyvet76 (deleted user)
    In this situation i might tip in certain circumstances. Like say we lost track of time and went a little over. I would say also if the session was jusy really a good time. Not a lot for tip though. I did a few snuggle buddies and cuddletimefl and i think i tipped the one who did an overnight with. I don't think I slept at all. My arm eas trapped under her arm. She said in the morning i should have just picked her up. She sleeps very soundly apparently.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Cuddling can be a nice way to make some extra cash but you're not going to be able to make a living off of it. No way.
    I've seen too many wonderful snugglers try and fail. Too many clients who want sex and not enough regular clients who don't to go around.
    They all have second jobs or just quit once something better comes along.

    It's like Lyft driving. Sounds good. But doing that as your only job is not easy
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    @Greenearth another pro said she made $2000 a night as a stripper. I did the math and if she stripped 5 days a week, she would make half a million dollars  at the end of the year which she probably wouldn't tax considering they were likely cash transactions. Sounds to me like that's the career choice to make.
  • [Deleted User]masterofcuddle (deleted user)
    Wow 2000 a night....that's 100 lap dances....
  • snuggle554321snuggle554321
    @Navyvet76 LOL  you poor thing! Did you have any feeling in your arm when you got up in the morning?  I have to agree with your cuddle buddy though. If I'm cuddling with someone and they're uncomfortable I would definitely want them to let me know! To be honest, if you  ever decide to tip, I really wouldn't worry about the amount.  I don't really think too highly of pros that would turn up their nose at any tip amount. Any expression of appreciation should be just that, appreciated!  You sound like an absolute sweetheart! It's too bad you don't live closer. I would love to have you as a client!  HUGE HUG!!!! 
  • [Deleted User]navyvet76 (deleted user)
    Snuggle554321 i used to live just north of 4th and B in San Diego
  • BrandiBrandi
    Thanks for your input Snuggl554321! I always love love love to hear what you have to say, you're such a positive influence in this community <3
  • BrandiBrandi
    "and the the negative comments about pros were basically negative comments about 3 pros, the rest are awesome."
    And yet the spawning of more negativity continues. At least you tried girl! lol.
  • [Deleted User]navyvet76 (deleted user)
    Brandi you and Snuggle554321 make me want to go back go SoCal lol no responses over here in Central Florida
  • snuggle554321snuggle554321
    @morpheus  Wow! Did you really just say that!  I guess if that's the train of thought that you have, another career choice that you would think would be good would possibly also be a high-end hooker. We already heard that some guy in LA offered one pro $5000 for one hook up. I can't imagine why some women wouldn't want to be prostitutes!  I mean, who cares if you're completely degrading yourself! You're making a whole bunch of money!  Seriously! Even if that was just a joke, that was done in extremely poor taste! Not classy!  Seriously! WOW! 
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    I knew I made the wrong career choice. Rather than going to college and getting a job in management at a major corporation, I should have become a stripper and made $2000 a night. I could have easily retired in 5 years rather than being a slave to the grind for the rest of my life.
  • BrandiBrandi
    Sorry to hear that navy :( You really seem like a great person, I hope that cuddling continues to grow and more people in florida catch the drift and understand how amazing it is! 
    I would sooo love to have a group cuddle sesh with you Navyvet74 with snuggle554321 if you ever came to visit! <3 :D

  • snuggle554321snuggle554321
    @navyvet76 Come visit us!!!  Seriously! Plan a vacation sometime and when you're in town let us know!  I would love to meet you in person! HUGE HUG!!!! 
  • [Deleted User]navyvet76 (deleted user)
    Brandi. Snuggle554321, i totally wish I could. A snugglecation would be well over due
  • snuggle554321snuggle554321
    Well,  if I'm ever in your area I will be sure to let you know! HUGE HUG!!!! 
  • BrandiBrandi
    @GreenEarth I have made a living off of cuddling for almost 2 years now. Nothing else involved for the majority of it. I worked at a strip club, and online webcamming, and did some side gigs, but that was actively about 5 months total. The rest of the year and a half was all me baby!  I was able to make it work, and am so motivated to make it work in the end and its such a negative mindset to say the word impossible, not to mention discouraging to the rest of cuddlers that are considering a pro status.

     I plan to make a business when I get all my ducks in a row, and even if I have to do surveys online, or other things as well in the meantime, you cant speak for everyone. Many have tried and failed, and many can and will continue to try. But all it takes is one. One success story. One person with so much dedication to make it work. I don't ever see myself stopping really. But who knows what the future holds <3 ^.^
    Anything is possible.


  • BrandiBrandi
    Seriously Trashing yet another pro @morpheous? You didnt get hate spewed to her enough in the first thread about that topic?  my gosh. smh.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    @Brandi its also irresponsible to give women the wrong idea that they can be pro and make enough money to support themselves doing this. They might quit their day jobs or give up other jobs or gigs they could have pursued as well...
    I'm not saying pro cuddling doesn't exist or doesn't provide some income....but thinking it is enough to support someone full time is really skeptical.....
    I've seen several go through that and then find something else to do...all it takes is one success story?  To do what?   Its like saying, everyone can be a movie star.  Yeah maybe a few make it...but most don't.   You better have a day job or side job in the meantime.





  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    edited March 2017
    That was a peaceful two weeks, now brains is back and we're back to fighting. Sorry everyone, I'll stop now.

    And Brandi, none of this was aimed at you. We talked it out and made peace. I'm perfectly fine with you and wouldn't bad mouth.
  • BrandiBrandi
    Maybe not, middle grounds are needed for sure @greenearth and I wasnt encouraging anyone to quit their jobs, or give unrealistic expectations, but I'm saying that this can potentially be a bigger thing than you realize. and if we get more people on board in a positive way, it can and will grow. :)


    That's not the point @Morpheous, Its amazing that you ALWAYS have to have beef with at least one pro.. Why cant you post peace please with everyone not just in the moment the select few that you dont hate..I will call you or anyone else out on any time anyone is being unreasonably being rude because that's not what I want to see in my cuddle community and I really like Buffyswan, she has done literally nothing wrong, to deserve such highschool gossip aimed at her..Lettttiiiiigoooooooo


  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    Like in Frozen... Let it go, let it go
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    On the topic of tipping, a pro who is no longer on the site used to charge me $50 an hour plus $10 for gas but would always stay an extra hour for free. The last couple sessions, I gave her $100 which was for two hours and gas. It was still a bargain but I felt that although she obviously enjoyed my company, she wasn't being compensated enough.
  • MailleweaverMailleweaver
    @Brandi What does "smh" mean? That's one of the internet abbreviations that I haven't been able to puzzle out.
  • [Deleted User]masterofcuddle (deleted user)
    Shaking My Head
  • MailleweaverMailleweaver
    Is there an internet handbook somewhere that everyone learns these things? I never got one.
  • [Deleted User]navyvet76 (deleted user)
    I wish there was lol. But some initialisms used in the net aren't always used the same.
  • MailleweaverMailleweaver
    I always wonder why people use them at all. If they're going to say something, don't they want the highest probability that it will be understood? Abbreviations and acronyms just hide their meaning behind seemingly random characters that require previous knowledge to decode. If their audience doesn't have that knowledge, then they're just wasting their time talking to themselves.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Well if you're typing on a phone you want to use abbreviations if you can right ?
    They're not that hard to learn. Try Google.
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