To be honest the idea for this discussion came to me via following the situations of a couple other people on another social media site. In both situations 2 separate individuals detailed stories about being approached and propositioned for dates/romantic encounters in a workplace setting. One as the employee and one as the customer both female ( but the questions I'm about to ask are not necessarily gender or sexual orientation specific ) but I guess its important to know their specific genders for context. Both women stated feeling uncomfortable in their situations because they felt the persons asking were over the top creepy , unprofessional , and in one case extremely vulgar and rude. But putting that aside if you can assuming it was done in a polite , respectful manner as either employee or customer would you ever find it appropriate ....
A. To ask that person on a date , inquire about taking them to dinner , a coffee , or what have you.
B. If the answer is no how come ? ( again assuming the approach is polite and respectful )
C. Is there ever a time or situation in our everyday lives outside of work where said proposition would be welcomed ?
D. In relation to cuddling specifically pro cuddling ,obviously all encounters here are to be entered into with an absolute platonic mindset before & during the session. Per site rules any inquiries about anything beyond are to be explored after the fact if one chooses to do so. How would you feel if a client ( afterall where you cuddle is technically your workplace ) reached out to you for a dinner date or coffee with romantic intentions and vice versa as a client how would you feel if a cuddler did so to you.
I have my opinions on all this but I'll hang up and let you guys answer 1st. Im interested in your response to any or all of the above questions.