I recently matched with someone on a dating app who mentioned cuddling several times in their profile.
We started talking and, well, I’ll attach the conversation to tell the story.
So, if you talk with someone who you’re attracted you and you consensually agree to cuddling, does that mean that cuddling really means sex?
She did try to clarify that cuddling means cuddling with the option of sex, but then she turned it all around. It was just weird that she questioned the thought that someone might think cuddling meant sex, but then she said cuddling does mean sex right after that.
Is this a common thought process for women? If a guy says he’s down with cuddling, yet y’all never even discussed sexual activity, he still has to have sex with you, or at least keep it open as an option?
To clarify, I’m not talking about matching with someone at 1 a.m. and asking to hook up for “cuddles,” but having a legit conversation with someone over the course of days or longer, and eventually planning to meet to cuddle. To me that doesn’t automatically mean sex...