Hey, I recently came across a reddit post about a guy that was going to higher a professional cuddler but decided against it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1quda9/turned_down_a_professional_cuddler/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_body
"I have been closely examining my motivations for this. It's true that there's loneliness. There's a void. But then, I hit upon this question - if touch is truly what I want, why am I looking for this experience from a woman? Why can't I ask one of my guy friends to simply give me a hug?
I'm 24 and I have spent the last several months working on my sexual weaknesses. There was a time when I suffered from a porn viewing habit. I was once on the verge of paying an escort for sex. It has taken much work to dig myself out of that hole and get to my present position, where I am rather stable. Truly, my goal is to find a great girl and eventually marry her. The reason I'm reaching out to anonymous strangers over the internet in this way, is because that goal has not made great progress.
In seeking to cuddle with you, I've realized that there is an undeniable sexual element to my motivation. The fact is that I'm looking to cuddle with a woman I find attractive. Subconsciously, what I'm seeking is touch, yes, but not just any touch - an attractive woman's touch. A soft touch, that my mind will associate with sexual gratification, even if that doesn't actually happen during our session.
I've come to believe my mind is playing a trick on me by rationalizing that cuddling with you can be in no way sexual, when in fact that is its primary motivation. And given that I find you attractive, there is no way that my mind will be clear of all sexual thoughts and image making if we were to meet for a session.
I believe that puts you in an unfair position. Your stated goal is to spread comfort and touch. It is not to cater to my sexual weaknesses.
I hope you understand. I apologize for wasting your time. I wanted to send this to you soon before you took the trouble to come all the way here."
I dont agree that cuddle is inherently sexual and I personally had successful platonic cuddles due to sites like this one. However, he makes good points about wanting an attractive female cuddler, what would you guys respond to this. Is there anyone that disagree or agrees with this post?