I signed up for this site because I'm generally lonely and I just want some sort of physical intimacy (not looking for casual sex). Until I visited family recently, I hadn't even had a hug in nearly 3 years, let alone anything more than that. Having been depressed for nearly a year now and absolutely no one I can even get a hug from in my every day life, I decided to try this site. But here's my concern: I'm not looking for sex from this site, so it will be of the utmost awkwardness for me if I'm spooning someone I met on here and I get an erection. Especially if I fall asleep while spooning her, because then there's the chance I'll unconsciously hump her and/or have a wet dream while pressed up against her. It's physiological, not intentional, and incredibly awkward for me, because I don't want to be accused of molesting her just because of an unitentional erection. Is there some sort of generally accepted protocol in place to address awkward, accidental erections? Because I'm afraid it's bound to happen to me; just the thought of cuddling a woman even without any sexual intent sometimes gives me one. So how do I become a cuddle buddy without having to worry about making either of us uncomfortable by me getting an erection? I'm seriously worried about this.