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IMPORTANT: As of September 21, 2016, I am fresh out of a committed relationship. She broke it off in the cruelest way imaginable, and while we managed to start to reconcile the next week, she did a complete 180 on October 3rd and just started saying very hurtful things completely without cause. I'm absolutely devastated right now. The one person I cared most about turned against me and pushed me away for reasons unknown and I'm not coping well with it at all. I've never been in so much pain before. I've never been farther from okay. Right now I just desperately need someone, anyone* to just hold me and let me cry without judging me.
*No guys; I'm sorry, I'm not homophobic or anything, but I'm just not comfortable with any sort of physical intimacy with men.
The following is the bulk of my profile from before the aforementioned devastating events; it's still relevant enough to suffice:
I tend to be a bit shy and awkward, especially around women, but I'm very friendly and easy to get along with.
I've been depressed for a while now so I need hugs now more than ever, but cuddling would be even better. My tastes and interests are very eclectic, but if I had to assign myself just one label, I would probably go with nerd. I play video games and I enjoy binge watching Netflix just as much as the next guy, and I have loads of useless trivia crammed in my head. I'll listen to most music but there are a few artists and songs I don't care for. I'm not a picky eater at all. I'm very respectful by default but if someone shows me they are disrespectful or otherwise just plain mean, I won't even try to get along with them; I'd rather just avoid them. If you're a bigot, we won't get along.
I'm not looking for a romantic relationship to come from this site, but I am aware that with the inherent intimacy of cuddling that some people might develop beyond platonic feelings for their cuddle buddy, especially if they are also compatible personality wise. That said, I'm open to the possibility in the sense that if my cuddle buddy develops feelings for me, I won't automatically turn her down just because of how we met.
I AM willing to go to cuddle someone far away (train distance), but if I'm going to be spending money on a train ticket for this, I would want the visit to be a weekend thing, as in spending the weekend together cuddling, watching movies, etc... It's just not realistic for me to take the train for just a few hours long visit. I can stay for longer than a weekend if my cuddle buddy would like me to, but she would need to be direct with me about it so I know when to book my return ticket for.
Anything else you want to know, feel free to ask me. If it's not a question I'm comfortable answering, I'll let you know, but there aren't too many questions you could ask that I'll decline to answer.
4 cats, 1 dog
Possibly in the future
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No Cuddle Karma just yet. You can write about your cuddle experience with MikeAC once you have exchanged a few messages.
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