The fact is many people have an upper age limit in their profile.
@UKGuy Well, that's life experience (or lack thereof)
Being in my early '40s, the most amazing cuddling experience I had was not with a woman in her '20s-40s, but actually almost '70. Yep.
A whole new world has opened up for me. I could probably write a whole essay about advantages of this approach and my subsequent realizations ...
Just sayin' ...
@UKGuy I just read your edited part ... & yes I agree, I had made a thread a while ago about liking / attractiveness ect & I got dragged through the mud & left out to dry lol... like, “how dare I ask such a thing” & virtually everyone mentioned how that is not a consideration/ how that has nothing to do with it / & blah blah blah .... but than here I noticed how the tone changed & went the opposite direction & how people are insinuating or just flat out saying it does ... this is a place of political correctness so I thread cautiously (sometimes lol) but I just had to point it out, but it comes down to what was mentioned above, “it does matter to many more people than like to admit”... & its ok not to admit it but don’t give your “nice answer” somewhere else to drag someone & than change tone somewhere else, peace ☮️ ✌️ 🌌
@cuddles_ndream
this is a place of political correctness so I thread cautiously >
Ha! Ha! I see what you did there 😆
@cuddles_ndream In today’s woke culture, you are expected to not only accept all kinds of people, but also desire them equally. Now, it is not enough to agree that women of all shapes and sizes can be ‘beautiful’, you are also required to desire them equally, and proclaim this publicly. This is neither fair nor realistic.
Such behavior is a hallmark of Cults and propaganda-driven societies. Until woke society accepts that it is OK for humans to desire different things, we will be forced to continue this virtue-signaling charade.
Nice catch @Spock 😝
& yes @ your last statement ... & that is with absolutely everything ..
@SuperSnuggler2 hahaha butt hurt @Spock hugs
I feel like I’ve had nice cuddle sessions with people of almost all ages. I’m probably in the age group @SuperSnuggler2 was talking about being in a previous post (47) and I do seem to get more requests from men in the 50-60’s age group. I truly feel that cuddle therapy can be positive and relaxing with any age or sex partner if done right. But I do think that most people who choose whom them want to book are at least at first looking at your pictures more than your age. Unless I’m oblivious 🤷♀️ But I am a little hurt that @pmvines has never chatted with me and set up a cuddle since we are pretty close in distance and him being so famous 😜
Thanks to this site I have cuddled with a few different aged pro cuddlers. I am a guy in my mid 20s I do prefer older women but doesn’t mean I won’t cuddle with someone around my age. I have learned what my age cut off is now.
Yes @cuddleanurse mr PMVines is a legend in the forums but he doesn’t pay for cuddles so you’re gonna have to contact him and let him know that you’re interested in cuddling him and do it for free. But at least you’ll be able to cross him off your bucket list 😁
I'm very open minded, I have cuddled with older & younger then myself. It really doesn't matter.
Good conversation is really important to me as part of a good cuddle. I don't have a solid cutoff on my preferred age range, but I do often have trouble connecting with people who are a lot younger than me. I'm usually comfortable in conversations with people my age or older. Talking to younger people can be interesting, don't get me wrong, but I usually need to adjust my conversation style for it.
So in the end, I do prefer cuddling people my age or older, but I make exceptions!
@pmvines your fan club is calling . . .
@cuddleanurse having cuddled three time with @pmvines, two as overnights, I can say it's worth waving your fee. he's an awesome cuddler and a better friend.
@littermate what can I say?? some folks just get their panties in such a bunch over life things it makes their butt hurt. . . . lol
@SuperSnuggler2 good to know. By the way- you rock for bringing up this subject as I have often wondered how others feel about the age of whom they cuddle.
I'm open to any age. I have noticed that many non-pro have an upper limit on their age preference that excludes me. Since a large percentage of the women on here are younger than me (I'm 58), that leaves fewer people in my traveling range to connect with. The result of this is that I've only been able to connect with pros.
I understand, because I was young once too, and I'm not sure how I would have listed my preferences when I was in my 20's.
This isn't a complaint, then, but just an observation of age from the perspective of a middle-aged man who lives on what I call vitamin h. 🙂
@cuddleanurse "I have often wondered how others feel about the age of whom they cuddle"
Just for interest, there are some statistics about age preferences in this thread from a few years ago:
Stats for male and female age preferences
@SuperSnuggler2 hee hee
@respectful thanks! Going to look at that thread now.
Oh I want share some thoughts...!
First off! Love to all of you!
Very interesting post. There are many ways this be viewed. To break it down and show the topics originally written
Men who are older (45+) who choose to cuddle only younger women. As in I've been told they do not cuddle with women "my age."
I've also had men complain to me about bad cuddles with younger women. I've also had younger men (like 20-somethings) that have told me they like to cuddle older women only.
People who post very old photos which, I assume, is to appear more youthful? For example, one person had black hair in their profile photo but was all white IRL.
We are here for many reasons. Some are true to what this company offers while others chose to fulfill a fantasy. We seek the one thing that makes us whole and loved. It's all fed through senses and different appetites to satisfy the mind.
The state of mind plays a huge role. If insecure as a person (gender) a man would seek a younger person. Others prefer different body types and looks. Some are so afraid on how they look that the photos are those taken years back, the glory days. Why? Because we want attention and fear being rejected.
Lacking human touch may give us that feeling of not being wanted. The ideal image of the one person to "save" us is like admiring a Godlike person. It can be a strong voluptuous woman or a male that has the looks of Hercules, etc.
What is shown here to all really an imaginative personification of we keep seeking in life. How we get what we need is a whole another story.
Do we want to live a fantasy? Do we want to be dishonest about why we are here?
All in all, it's really about needs to fill a part of us that has withered away. The honey that is sweet; the soothing balm of a touch. We want to connect and choose the things that clearly gets us there.
It's important to know that a cuddler is SPECIAL to someone. It matters not the shape, looks, or age. Someone seeks you because you are their Goddess or God. You give them the link to safety and love.
@Tazman5307 that was beautiful.
@Tazman5307: Eh... I don't really need all my cuddle buddies to be worshipping me. Don't really need them to be thinking I'm saving them from anything, either. Definitely don't need to be worshipping or expecting salvation from them.
Sure, maybe when two cuddle buddies meet they're "saving" each other from no cuddles—but dude, that's a weird way of looking at it.
I don't care if my buddies are special to anyone. Heck, I don't care if I'm special to anyone but myself: what matters is that we both need cuddles and we're both getting them. Don't seek me because I'm your deity, geez. I'm not giving you any links to safety or love (especially not love). I'm giving you friendly platonic physical contact.
Worship, salvation, love—not required. Don't pile all that on me, thanks.
I just want to cuddle.
@Tazman5307 Awesome and vividly described. Your words brought many concepts in my imagination to life, for me.
@Tazman5307
"Someone seeks you because you are their Goddess or God."
That's kinda eerie.
@Tazman5307 Very imaginative and poetic 👍🏼
I think there might be some unrealistic pedestal placing there . Seems from the heart and all , but nobody is a goddess or god for cuddling with you . That is an enormous amount of pressure , plus as @DarkLordChungus states , a bit eerie....
It can be a strong voluptuous woman or a male that has the looks of Hercules, etc
@Tazman5307 I mean, if someone's clean, respectful, nice to be around, and in my area, I'm down. I can't say I like the idea of worshipping a cuddle buddy or being worshipped by one. I'm just a simple mammal looking for (safe) physical contact.
I used those words (God or Goddess) to help view of why we chose our partners in life. It's based on on a feeling drawn from an experience.
For me, as a little kid in Argentina, I once met a neighbor who to me was epefimy of the perfect woman. She was so sweet to me and truly cared for me. She was strong, tall, voluptuous, gorgeous blonde hair and those eyes. Her name was Julia.
In the middle of very hot summer night there was an Earthquake and it was so scary. I was crying out of fear just like my sister. Suddenly something happened that changed the night and my life for ever.
Julia comes out of nowhere and was eagerly looking for me to make I was okay. She had this statuesque stance and while she rushed towards me, her female body was drawn to me in slow motion. A light behind her illuminated her female shape.
This little boy saw his Goddess. She held me so tight that I was in complete ecstasy and happiness. I was in love.
So she became the type of women I wanted to chase in my life. That experience was beautiful. The Julias in my life that made me feel safe and loved.
So if I chose someone to cuddle with, it has to be this type of woman. For others it can something else, but who we chose to safe and loved is that person we admire and love, the template forever...
Edited. Let's remember to keep it platonic, and do not include adult content to keep within the site rules. @Tazman5307 . Thanks. [-Sid]
@Tazman5307: You do know there's a difference between a life partner and a cuddle buddy, right?
Wow we are all clearly here for different things. Maybe a thread needs to be started on those who are looking for attraction/romantic cuddles vs simply safe cuddles?
Because I feel like I've seen similar sentiments to @Tazman5307 's from both men and women.... But like @squeakytoy @DarrenWalker and @DarkLordChungus, I would be DEEPLY creeped out by something like what he just described.
May I gently suggest that if one is thinking/talking about how a cuddle partner's body looks (at least in that much, uh, detail).... one might not be here for the right reason.
I definitely am not here to cuddle with someone who is my ideal of beauty/sexuality. In fact that could be more stressful, since I'd want to impress them. I'm here for safe, consensual, no-strings-attached affection with someone I marginally get along with. Not someone who's chasing a goddess.
This is one of the creepiest, cringiest things I've ever read on this forum.