I joined a few months ago and I have yet to find someone who is here genuinely looking for platonic cuddles. Mostly I discover this through messaging, which is great. Less time is wasted and my safety is not at risk.
Many of the people I chat with just don't know how to have a conversation. As an enthusiast, this is super important to me as I don't want to spend time with someone I couldn't be friends with and have deep, meaningful talks with while we spend time together.
Those two things are frustrating enough but what I am really losing hope in with CC is the few people who I have decided to meet with in person seem to think there may be more on offer. Some have talked about the possibility of dating even though I never brought up anything of the sort.
But worst of all is the men who decide to see if they can get away with groping me while we are cuddling. They do this even after one or more face to face meetings where I explicitly state I am not interested in anything other platonic cuddling.
I have had 3 cuddling sessions and all 3 have tried to make a move. I have done what I know and have read on the forums how to screen people. I've been up front and crystal clear with my expectations and yet this keeps happening.
To head off the questions I have reported people but 2 of them either deleted or deactivated their accounts before I could do anything. I know that there are people out there who are looking for strictly platonic cuddles but I will say from my perspective it's hard to be an enthusiast woman cuddler with so many bad actors out there.