Widow/Widowers San Diego. What do I do?

[Deleted User]sdrobertoe (deleted user)
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I'm new to this place. My wife passed away 2 months ago. Has any other widow or widowers tried this before? Does it help? Do cuddle seekers meet other cuddle seekers here or is it always cuddle seekers finding a professional cuddler? I just miss feeling affection, simple things like hand holding, a hug. Looking at each other in the eyes. I even miss getting into a silly argument. This is tough and my heart aches. No idea what to do to feel semi normal again. Not even sure anyone will see or respond to this.

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  • _marC_marC

    Welcome to the site. Be sure to read the FAQs.

    Yes there are many widow widowers Who have found comfort here period with time. And patience, I'm sure you will too.🫂

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod
    edited December 2024

    Sorry about your news.

    Yes, many people in your situation are here or have passed through. Yes, cuddling can be extremely helpful. Yes, hand-holding and hugs are very common cuddling activities.

    Yes, cuddle-seekers do meet other cuddle-seekers (we call them 'enthusiasts') but the reality is that if you are a man looking for a woman then you are unlikely to find anybody for some time, if ever. Your best bet, if funds allow, is to find a good professional cuddler. Not every professional is keen on eye-gazing, but some absolutely love it.

    To feel semi-normal again, just wait. Let time do its healing trick. While you are waiting, keep moving forward with life: don't get stuck. Since you are posting here, it looks like you are doing that anyway.

    You may find these threads helpful. Take your time, don't rush into anything. Good luck!

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