Hello to all of you that identify as asexual. I am definitely not : - ) but I am glad that you have found a place where you can meet others who also identify as asexual.
I would suggest ignoring the vocal minority that resides here and insists that the world is as they see it, and just continue on cuddling. This is NOT a dating site, and most that I have interacted with understand that and proceed from that place of understanding, There ARE some who clearly sexualize this site. You will figure out who those people are quickly... personally I would ignore them and move on to your cuddling ! Good luck!