What is it and have you done it?
How does that work? If you aren't in person how are you actually able to cuddle? Please enlighten me.
It's really no different than a cam to cam meeting on your laptop. I can see how this might have been really popular during COVID-19 lockdowns.
It's not something I personally have any interest in. To me, cuddling is about the body to body contact.
It's going to be different between every set of cuddlers, as it's really only limited by your imagination and boundaries.
There's several post threads already dedicated to this topic worth checking out for ideas and experiences:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/13533/virtual-cuddling
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/16158/what-exactly-is-a-virtual-cuddle
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/15121/virtual
This article written from the perspective of a client in a virtual cuddle session is fantastic: https://www.elle.com/uk/life-and-culture/culture/a34322269/virtual-cuddle/
I really don’t see how it’s considered cuddling. The whole point of cuddling in my opinion is platonic physical connection. If anything, virtual is more of a friendly Zoom call.
@cuddlefaery thank you for the links.
The whole point here is connection and for some its best by touch. But this is a great alternative if someone is unable to due to circumstances or whatever (imo).
I have not done, virtual, cuddling, but I’ve done what I call Cuddle texting. Same as the hugs I give via text. They are very descriptive and some people feel as if I’m actually next to them doing it.
I can speak from personal experience as an enthusiast attendee of group virtual cuddle sessions (I attend one monthly) and a few paid one-on-one as a client that virtual sessions absolutely can feel as intimate and connected as in-person ones. If the facilitator/professional knows how to lead meditation, self-massage, imagery exercises, somatic therapy, etc. and one is willing to let go of preconceived notions of what to expect going in, tactile memory and imagination are powerful things.
Even without trying to replicate the touch experience virtually, skilled companionship is valuable and completely different from just "calling a friend". I spend a good deal of my socializing time online due to scheduling and health issues, so I am used to virtual interactions, and I still will pay for skilled professional cuddling/companionship sessions when I am able to. Trying to compare them is like comparing your friend giving you a massage vs going to get a professional massage. The former is enjoyable and you wouldn't turn it down, but when you can afford the latter it is worth every penny for the depth of skill and longer lasting benefits.
No, never used and won't use it. It was used during the pandemic for some. I don't see it as cuddling, but some may believe it has some therapeutic effects.
I've had a few virtual sessions with people. I don't think it's as good as the real thing, but it does help get to know someone you plan to see on future travels. I've also had fellow cuddlers who just needed to relax, talk, and really wanted to have someone's undivided attention for a period of time... I provided that. A few times I've had virtual coffee in bed and had lovely, respectful conversations. It's not the same as cuddling in person, but it does fill a need for some.
@MrMarkAndrew @MrAdmirer @Midnight01 if you don't see virtual cuddling/telecuddling as a form of cuddling then I suggest you educate yourself by reading the threads that @cuddlefaery has kindly linked to. The first one links to a number of others.
Virtual cuddling/telecuddling is startlingly different from a routine videocall. @cuddlefaery hits the nail right on the head in her post above.
@CuddleDuncan kindly no thanks. I don’t need to educate myself to know what cuddling is.
Not everyone's needs are the same. I know that virtual cuddling would do nothing for me, but I know someone for whom it is better than being in person.
Virtual cuddling/telecuddling is startlingly different from a routine videocall.
I did numerous "virtual sessions" during the pandemic, and every last one of them was a normal video call.
Cuddling is by definition about physically touching another person. If you're not touching another person, you're not cuddling. There may be lots of activities people can do on a video call that make them feel happy or comforted or loved or whatever else they may want. And that's great! But it's not cuddling.
Perhaps, by the next pandemic we'll have cuddle robots so we won't need virtual cuddling
Virtual cuddling is so sweet. I’m sure most of us have partaken in it once or twice with a significant other we didn’t live with. I personally love it. The sense of security you get from it is lovely. Waking up and having someone waiting for you on the other end is amazing. And even listening or watching someone else sleep. I for some people on this app, they don’t care about the sentiment they want to be physically touched. So In that way it’s not for everyone. Hope that helps. 😊😊
It’s a great way to connect with people who are not local and to build rapport and friendship in hopes of meeting someday soon 🥰✨
The whole idea about cuddling is to reclaim some of the physical connection people are lacking. This one is a video call and nothing more. I feel it’s a waste of money as most pros give some discount, 😂 Again, my personal opinion… depends on everyone’s situation
@Midnight01 🎯 👍🏽
Its a 2020 lockdown phenomenon. Like going to your virtual dentist and doctor. It sucks they cant clean your tooth or take your temp while also taking your weight. But dang it feels good to see the old MDs are still their to tell you to lay off the burgers and soda. Its a health checkup without the human touch. Take or leave it, Maybe your laptop needs a hug every now and then. Or your phone really wants you to not just finger bang it but actually hold it and talk into its speaker or look into its lens and hold a conversation. Lol 2 for 2.
@Midnight01 🤣🤣
