Listen I'm all for a healthy marriage where both parties are open and transparent and have a personal "arrangement" that they are both okay with. In which case, that should be none of the cuddlers business. But what is most concerning is the men telling me they are married and asking me if I'M okay with that? Well first of all sir, if you're going to ask my personal opinion on such a matter I'm going to need more details because if your wife isn't aware of what you're doing then you prob are a questionable human being and why would I want to risk my well being around a stranger with questionable morals?? And second of all if you ARE in fact sneaking around behind your wife's back, why in the world would the cuddler need to know about your personal dirty business. It's very CLEAR what exactly these men are expecting and it isn't cuddles 😑