I was thinking about past adventures in life where I remembered a sunny day in San Diego (aren't they all sunny?) where I talked my GF at the time to go to a public swimming pool. She could barely swim--so this was a terrifying adventure for her and we went. My intention was to help her become a better swimmer---but it ended up being one where she just wrapped her harms around me essentially having me carry her around the pool. I completely understand this would NOT be acceptable behavior with a PRO/Enthusiast but I am sharing the story for what it was---just a fun filled day of water cuddling--no sexual intent (it was a public pool). While its easy to see how such a situation could turn into a NSFW----the experience became one that I remember because it did not. It was just a fun day of closeness. I am sharing this story for two reasons--1) -to solicit others to share non-sexual cuddling experiences that were unique and 2) Are there unique platonic ways of cuddling that may broaden potential experiences. have a had an adventurous life---and as any know--I am completely nuts but happy with who I am (despite current circumstances). But as I reflect---although sex can be fun, it nowhere mirrors the fulfillment and enjoyment of platonic experiences in my life--their impact is way more lasting! Please feel free to share thoughts!