Sending personal information to a Pro

1965149219651492
in Pro Cuddling

I have concerns about sending personal information including a photo to a Pro. I understand a Pro needs to be secure with who they are meeting but as a professional working man I would like to keep my indentity private. What are your thoughts on this?

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  • TxTomTxTom

    As a professional working man, myself (and not a cuddle Pro), it sounds like you're not in a hurry to cuddle any time soon.

  • RezzRezz

    Would you hire a pro sight unseen?

    We have much bigger concerns about repeat offenders returning to the site to assault pros. We use photos to help identify and avoid them.
    For myself and many other pros, no photo = no session.

    How would you feel about your mom, daughter, niece, sister meeting a faceless stranger off the Internet to cuddle? Wouldn't you like to know the face of the person she is meeting in the event something goes south? How would you report an assailant without a photo or any identifying information in the event something did go wrong?

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod
    edited September 2024

    NO PHOTO = NO SESSION. NO EXCEPTIONS

    is the advice I always give to professional cuddlers. If you seriously want somebody to give you a intensely intimate and emotional service like cuddling, at genuine personal risk to themselves, without having at least some safeguards, without having some semblance of symmetry in what you know about each other ...... what are you thinking? What makes you think it's ok even to ask that? It horrifies me.

    @19651492 this question comes up every few months, you are simply the lastest person to ask it. It always disturbs me greatly, for a number of different reasons. One of them is the great sympathy I feel for the people who post it, who are living in such deep fear. No wonder you need a cuddle. I really, really hope you are able to get yourself to a place where you can send a photo and get the touch you need. These threads may be helpful in finding the right professional for you.

    Remember that professional cuddlers, like everybody else, are bound by data protection laws in your area and that any trained professional cuddler will have subscribed to a code of practice which is likely to include elements of client confidentiality.

  • Mike403Mike403
    edited September 2024

    I'm a little confused why "professional working man" means you want to stay anonymous here. Almost everybody here is working. Are you afraid your job will find out that you're here? If my job disciplined me for doing a perfectly legal activity during non-working hours, that is not somebody I want to work for anyway.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc
    edited September 2024

    I’m a big believer in privacy as well, but your profile is extremely vague and wouldn’t instill confidence in anyone: No pix. A 13 word description and only one karma (not that that’ part is a deal breaker). But it’s pretty apparent you’ve put absolutely zero effort into your profile, so maybe consider having a real description of who you are, why you’re here, and what you’re looking for. Color it up a bit.

    To get you gotta give….

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    I’m waiting for OP to answer the question from @Rezz and to further address her comments….
    About whether he or any man here would hire a Pro or cuddle any woman without ever seeing a photo. Nothing before meeting.

  • TxTomTxTom

    @g_w_t_w
    I wouldn't.

  • 1965149219651492

    Thanks for everyones comments.

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    Your first name and a recent selfie sent in a DM would still keep your identity private to the overall public. And unless you try to do something illegal, no one else would see your information other than your cuddler. 🤷‍♀️. I mean, your cuddler will see your face in person and hopefully you would tell then your first name so they don't have to call you dude or hey man. lol

    I'm a professional working woman in an office. Being a professional cuddler, I'm required to have visible photos on my profile. 🤷‍♀️🫂

  • MeltMyWayMeltMyWay

    You could ask them to sign a simple NDA first

    Don’t send a photo you’ve used elsewhere online so it can’t be searched

    but honestly, what is it you think a pro would do with the pic you are sending to them? I understand not wanting to post a pic to your profile but I don’t see what the issue could be sending it to the pro.

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod

    You do not need to have a photo of yourself on your profile if you are not a pro, but if you are unwilling to share a photo via private message, don’t expect much cuddles.

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