@lovelylizamarie
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Do the Mods notify a person who has a “bad photo”, and then the culprit receives a warning & removes it himself/herself? Or do the Mods remove it themselves with no notice, after it’s been reported? I notice that the offender is usually allowed to stay here but the ick-pic is gone.
@g_w_t_w - I believe they said that nudity gets outright bans. Everything else might be issued a warning depending on if they believe the member is here for platonic reasons or not.
Banning is a severe punishment as they are permanently blacklisted from the site unless they successfully appeal.
Specifically referring to men with no shirts (and not at the beach) are generally not banned but those pics are still not allowed. Wondered if they are given the option to remove the photo themselves, or if the mod removes it automatically without warning, They are not banned unless there are other photos that are locked and are non-platonic. Those get banned obviously.
I suspect that with relatively minor offences like a simple shirtless photo, they just tell the guy to change it. It's less work. And then if he doesn't, that's ignoring the Mods which is a Bad Thing.
So the person gets to remove the photo himself voluntarily. The mods don’t do it for him? I have a reason for asking. Maybe the Mod goes back and checks to see if the guy did it on his own. I thought the Mod sent a notification and the Mod was the one who removed the photo. Kind of feel like my question isn’t understood because of the answers I’m getting.
@g_w_t_w if I’m not mistaken, I believe I read in one of the threads, that both can happen. A mod will ask the person to remove the pic or the mod will remove the pic and notify them of the reason.
With guys it depends if in the picture you have a six pack or you look like you drank a six pack…every day.
Some of them have a distorted self image and don’t understand what most women here might want to see in a photo. Anyway, one of the Mods told me a long time ago that the photos should show at minimum the amount of clothing that is required for cuddling in TOS
@CuddleDuncan tysm!!🤗
How do you get paid ?
Do you think that some people will be rejected by all enthusiasts and pro cuddlers ?
@Nesontpas This doesn't seem like a frequent question. It seems like something meant to start a discussion and should be its own post.
@Nesontpas If something they say or something in their profile screams non-platonic, yes.
I have a question I’m new how do we go about w2 1099 etc I seen we are responsible for reporting are earnings as a contractor how is that process done
@Luvybabygirl
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/21812/taxes#latest
There are links in this thread with info to answer your question
I think I've seen that we are not supposed to have pay links on our profile...but I'm wondering if we are allowed to send them in private messages? I just had a cuddler who lives too far to be a client compliment my page and ask if he can buy me a coffee via Venmo. It also states in his profile that he likes to do this. I told him I wasn't sure if it was allowed but thanked him for the kind gesture . I said I would look into it but better safe than sorry for now!
@cheeseboy I didn't get a response to my previous post so I thought I would summon a mod...is that how this works? 😆
I'm having an issue accessing my bookmarks. I keep getting a host error message. Not sure who to ask for help with this matter.
Nevermind, I figured it out. Apparently, I can't bookmark threads that the bump feature has been turned off.
Why can't I see my own photo when I message on a question?
Is there any way to change my name on here or do I have to create a new account",¿ I hope someone sees this
@heather15 You can change your name once a year. Go to Settings, Username, and the option should be there.
How can you book session with enthusiast? If they want to ...
@Sam77 you don’t book sessions with enthusiasts. You just talk, decided to meet, and then cuddle. Some want to arrange here on the site, some offline.
Bookings are through the website for paid cuddling.
@lovingspoonfull Thank you.can they share no.for offline talk? Wont be a violation of terms?
@sam77 my understanding is no issues at all unless they are professionals charging for cuddles. How you communicate as two enthusiasts is completely up to the two of you.
@lovingspoonfull thank you
Is my account sketchy?
@cool_dude_ nothing looked sketchy to me. Is there a specific part you think gives that vibe?
I would suggest you might get better and a broader range of feedback if your post had its own thread instead of buried in a FAQ.
Good luck!
Misunderstood what this thread was for sorry