@sammysnuggles Infinite patience. Because every enthusiast woman on here gets buried in messages offering free cuddles, there isn't a lot of demand for male pros.
Have you ever wished to be bad dangerous and a smooth criminal - just like Michael Jackson ???
@WriterGF - He cuddles men too per his profile so he might have a chance.
@Mike403 True.
The fact that this client tried to get over on prices because I’m a new cuddler is ridiculous.. he said I should give him 50% off for cuddling overnight …
Like please find some cheaper . Everyone have a choice.
Can a person put they charge if they are not a professional
@Barbara48 No, and if you see that, report them. Charging when you're not a pro can get you banned.
I have a question. .. I am still fairly new to this site, how in the heck does a virtual session work? I just had someone message that to me and I'm not sure what or how to respond. How would that even work
@Amber1983 there is a sticky topic on the Professional Cuddling board about virtual cuddling. It does work, but you need to read up on it first.
How do you delete pictures sent in private messages?
@Lotus0007 I don't believe that you can.
Why do some Pros ask to be sent a photo when photos are already public and available on my profile that the Pro may or may not visit while we're exchanging messages?
@TxTom some professionals, like some clients, aren't clever enough to look at profiles.
More commonly, I believe many professionals never bother to look at clients' profiles because so many of them are blank. When you are receiving quite a lot of enquiries, most of which will never come to anything, the amount of time a professional could spend looking at blank profiles does start to add up.
I saw a local profile with no payment terms...just a price. I sent a booking request through the book now button, with a time and day suggested and offered cash. She has been online several time since, but no reply. Should I assume I was not accepted for some reason? Seems anyone that says they are a pro wants bookings and would respond, even if to say they are not available. Have another question, but different topic so will post separately. Thanks.
There is a lot of info here about keeping men in a platonic mindset, which I totally understand. But, I see a few profiles with some pretty suggestive photos, including one pro with an open shirt, no bra and some under boob showing. What are we to think of that profile or are just supposed to avoid it to stay out of that gray vacuum area??
@ALittleHelp unfortunately the experience you describe is very common. Don't worry about it, just move on and ask somebody else. It is frequently necessary to contact three or four professionals before finding one you match with.
No, you should not assume you were not accepted. There are 87 million possible reasons for the lack of reply and only a handful of them involve you.
Almost all professionals are very part time, and many are new and inexperienced. For most it's their first time being on the other side of customer service. History teaches us that from the clients' perspective, modest expectations - very modest - are the way forward.
You may find these threads helpful:
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
Ten Things Your Professional Cuddler Wants You to Know
How to Save Money on Professional Cuddling
Understanding Boundaries & Etiquette
How does one actually become an enthusiast, you just say "hey I'm an enthusiast"or what's the deal ?
@TeddyCuddle45 yes. 'Enthusiast' is the catch-all term that has evolved to meet anybody in the cuddle world is does not, or not currently, act as a cuddle professional or client thereof.
It is possible for an individual person to be a member of all three groups - enthusiast, professional and client - or any combination of two.
The fourth group, not officially respresented on this site, are the people who run cuddle workshops and parties. Many of these, although not all, are cuddle professionals in the sense of offering individual cuddle sessions to clients. Some are cuddle professionals in the sense that they earn money from the parties/workshops. However many of these events are run for love, and the fees only cover the costs.
How much would a cuddler charge for a 3 hour drive to meet a client with a 3 hour session
@Southernembrace Each Pro Cuddler sets her own rates individually, so it could vary by quite a bit. Also some offer discounts for more than 1 hour. Travel costs are usually in addition & separate cost. Thoroughly read all the way through a profile to see if that information is already listed. You can message and ask. let her know you’re interested, and provide information about yourself and what you’re hoping for.