Icy what you did there.
Because n women are more talented than men?
(Edit) My rhetorical question wasn't really about chemistry.
@AlyLauren I have kindness and empathy when I cuddle. I provide support and comfort to my cuddle partner also. But instead of getting paid for providing the same benefits that you provide, I pay for it. Please don't insinuate that men need to pay women because only women know how to provide those cuddle benefits and only men need them. It is really just supply and demand.
I mean, being a good human and taking the time and effort and care to actually bother building connections and fostering safe platonic friendships is also a thing but if complaining about the pro/client dynamic is your thing then go for it. I'm glad that there are cuddle pro women on here willing to cuddle men for a fee, because it seems to be mostly men who voice complaints about not being able to find cuddle friends. It might not necessarily be a preference for some, but it's still an option, which is a good thing.
Because being a pro brings a false sense of security. People think being a pro means you'll be respected. I've spoken with MANY former members of this site who're no longer on this site due to "increased expectations" because money was exchanged. It's possible other pros haven't experienced what those pros did, but that in no way negates their experiences. I also think that pros are given higher regard on this site because they generate profit.
Whoever said their time is valuable really struck a nerve with me. I can't count how many times an account was deleted or banned after I spent my precious time conversing on here,
@btc13 I never said men can't provide those things. I said I am specifically really good at those things, and it's okay for me to expect compensation for those skills. I have cuddle buddies who don't pay me, and I have friends who cuddle without payment either way. I think it's wonderful that clients can access those skills by hiring a pro, and that pros can be compensated for it.
I would love if there were more male pros and female clients! I would love if the site was 50/50 men and women and everyone was cuddling everyone regardless of gender, and every one was safe the whole time. Unfortunately, that's not the reality.
I'm a pro cuddler and if I wanted to book a CCpro to set aside their time and hold space for me, I would most likely seek out a female provider. I've networked with cuddlers of both genders and met a few male providers (from other locations), and been hired by male, female,and trans clients. I would still spend my own money on a female cuddle pro with the same vibe I try to bring.
Basic economics Supply & Demand. Plus for some it is probably a very enjoyable past time. I’ve met pro women that love to cuddle and make money on the side. I’ve met pro women who seem to look at clients as a ATM. Same as any other job of a caregiver or such.
Anyone who equates money with non platonic active usually has that on their mind or ran into people who think that way.
Just about all my cuddles were beautiful & beneficial. No regrets.
@great_pillow08
I also think that pros are given higher regard on this site because they generate profit.
Why would unpaid moderators who are motivated by a desire to keep this community safe and peaceful be influenced by cash flow between CC and a pro?
I haven’t been cuddling lately because I need it to be 100% mutual. I want to feel cared for. The last Cuddler I met with was ice cold. I felt like I should immediately leave. It was a bad experience and I felt very depressed about it later. I wish he had told me why he reacted that way but he didn’t. It makes me afraid to try again (unless they have a sailboat).
@g_w_t_w I wish I had a sailboat to take you out to sea for a cuddle under the sunset!
@Violetblanket That made my day, so kind! If I was a good sailor I would try to rent one and then I would do all my cuddling rocking back and forth at sea with the sunset. I will lyk!