I am in Chattanooga. I need to hire a professional cuddler. Prefer male between 5'6-6'0". Age 45-55. Anyone available? I am new to this site and the cuddle concept
Welcome! Unfortunately professional men cuddlers are few and far between, and almost all of those that exist have more enthusiasm than knowledge and understanding.
Your best bet is to take some time to get to know this place, don't let yourself be put off by the any idiots you encounter, and find a fellow enthusiast to cuddle with. There are many more men on this site than women.
You may find these threads helpful:
Top Tips for New Enthusiast Women
I'm a non-pro woman on this site, and here's what I look for in a first message.
Understanding Boundaries & Etiquette
+1 to what Duncan just said. You'll likely find no shortage of enthusiast men on here in your area. Just use good horse sense in evaluating who you want to meet.
@Amy1976 First of all welcome to CC. It is a wonderful site in my opinion and I am glad to see you here in this community ! š I am wishing you lots of success in your cuddle journey and me and others here are more than happy to assist you in what you are looking for here.
My comments are more about an above poster who gives the "knee jerk" reaction, ( rather harshly imo ) to women's inquiry to wanting to hire preferably a male professional cuddler.
Words posted above like "unfortunately" "have more enthusiasm than knowledge and understanding" "Idiots" (Just wowser on that one!)
This is a kind of negativity and mind set which enforces that Men can't become quality professional cuddlers. It is really sad and discouraging to see a self proclaimed cuddle expert use this type of language and attitude especially with someone who has just joined our community .
One would think we as a community of caring folks that we would be more encouraging and supportive instead of offering some cut and paste tired out postings.
We have and have had some excellent male professional cuddlers on CC and I believe it is this negative attitude toward the male professional cuddler that sometimes keeps men from succeeding in this profession.
Now before someone posts "well this is reality blah blah blah... just a reminder someone over 15 years ago started this site to bring folks together in a unique way and I am sure there was just as much negativity as one of the above posters regularly posts, and yet here we are 15 plus years later with a thriving site and community ! š
Anyways @Amy1976 again welcome to CC. If you need positive assistance we are here. Please don't let someone try to silence you. Wishing you well! š
Hi @Amy1976 iām a professional female cuddler in Knoxville and have held meet ups and some different group activities over the years and if you would like to message me privately, I have several enthusiast that I would recommend in your area. Most of the male pros I have met in the area are no longer working as pros. I would be happy to speak with you about the different possibilities and issues as well. Welcome to the site and please let me know if I can be of assistance!
Hi VitaminJ. Can you message me please? I cant figure out how to message you. I would love to talk with you.
@Amy1976
Click on the Request to Book button on her profile to send a message
Use the @ in front of her name (no spaces) to tag her here to notify her so she sees your post
@VitaminJ
Wondering how Amy's first cuddle session went.
@TeslaX She already deleted her account.
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