@pmvines
I booked with a pro cuddler and she was told to remove her bikini picture. By all standards it was conservate. No "protrusions" or anything suggestive. I know I've seen many that are VERY suggestive. To the point you can tell they're not a natural blonde. I take it that maybe different moderators have different standards? Am I missing something?
@pmvines I think she was referring to your low knee, not your high-knee. (🤪 ... I think maybe you got those two mixed up.)
@Thenewestguy Moderators do not go looking for problematic photos, we can only respond to those that are Reported. Context is as important as the garment: a well-respected professional in a bikini helping elderly disabled people with their hydrotherapy is one thing; a brand new member in the same bikini posing provocatively on a leopardskin rug is quite another.
@Cuddleduncan. Thank you for responding.
How do pros get stars?
@SincereEmbrace stars relate to Karma. When you reach five 5-star Karma, you get a star on your thumbnail with the number.
I can't quite remember how it's affected by Karma that isn't 5-star, but you get the idea. You have three so far, and when you get to five your thumbnail will get a start with the number 5. If you look down the page of profiles you'll see that there is never a 1,2,3 or 4.
New to this site and wondering: 1. How come my profile picture can't be seen in searches? Someone has to click on my picture-less-looking profile in order to see that there actually is a photo of me. [Edit: picture has become visible.] 2. Do I have a limited number of new conversations daily because I'm not a pro? 3. How many new conversations am I alloted in a day?
Thank you!
@KangarooInDC If you're from washington d.c., I think you are limited to 1 conversation a day!
@KangaroolnDC PS: that was a joke. For some reason it got cut off in the previous post.
I have a question, I recently booked a cuddler that clearly stated they were a Female in their ad, I only found out after that this was not true! I was extremely traumatized by this. I mean there are plenty of titles to choose from. Has this happened to anyone else? I fear for this person as someone else might not be as forgiving
Re-posting my queries as a newbie:
How can I privately send screenshots to site admins? I got a message from a member of the site that I found disturbing.
@KangarooInDC Have you reported him? That’s the first most important thing to do. In your report definitely say that you have screenshots of a disturbing conversation and the Mods will sort it out. I see that you’re new, do you know the process of reporting someone? And I’m also sorry that you’ve had to deal with a difficult situation. Unfortunately it happens.
You can DM a mod also I by clicking these links and sending his username to a Mod. @stormydaycuddle @CuddleDuncan @CharlieBear
It's odd that you automatically think it's a man. It would have been just as easy to say have you reported " Them" or just have you reported "the person"
@Carrie_Anne thank you. I hadn't previously noticed the "report" option, but just found it thanks to your helpful prompting.
@Silvertiner To clarify, this is, indeed, about someone who identifies as a man.
Is cash app best way to pay pros ?
@illinoisguy56 I am a Venmo cuddler myself. It depends on each cuddler, and I think it's just a personal preference.
Hey everyone, I’m new here. I’m still learning my ways around, but a lot of people are messaging me and they don’t have any karma‘s or pictures. And they just keep offering me money, but I don’t care about the money I care about my safety so I don’t know what to do or what to say really should I like update my profile if anybody could give me some tips that would be great.
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@bianca106 spend some time with the sticky topics at the top of the professional cuddling board. Many clients have no Karma, picture or even profile text, and in and of itself it is not necessarily a red flag .... although obviously it's not the best of starts.
Never do anything that you feel compromises your safety.
This helped me out a lot as a newbie
Is a mod allowed to block someone for asking for clarification on what she said when locking a thread? There was no malice. I genuinely wanted an answer.
@IronicMaiden I've not heard of a formal rule on that, but generally no.
It is the case that sometimes the relationship between a Mod and the person they are dealing with does not go well. In that case it's fine to send a nice message to another Mod asking them to intervene.
Mods are busy and have lives, so it does sometimes take a few days for them to respond.
@CuddleDuncan I looked at the message I sent to the mod, and it says she blocked me 15 minutes later.
@IronicMaiden it would have been better if you'd just said that at first.
This is not a matter of public interest, please message me or one of the others if you want to talk more.
Closing the loop on this, it seems it's allowed if the mod disagrees with something you said.
Is there any policiy for opening up a space for others to cuddle and would it be fair to charge for that space?
@spartacus40 that is outside the scope of this site, and advertising an outside business is against TOS.
Edit: sorry, tagged wrong person! 😅
Edit 2: here's the specific policy and link to site TOS
This website sucks. I have like 30+ messages sent out form people local in my area. And not a single one has replied. After 20 days of being on this lame website i officially give up. Thanks