As a female enthusiast I usually reach out to people who have messaged me, when I'm setting up World tours, as many of my American fans won't be able to see me in Australia.
@Vespurrrr
You are a cuddle pro though, aren't you ? Not an enthusiast ?
Sometimes I message my visitors especially if they are frequent visitors but even then it mostly never turns into an in person cuddle, which I found odd. Not sure why people are creeping on my page but can’t say hi
The original post is about enthusiast cuddlers not pros.
I'm not so sure everyone got that. 🤔
@MeltMyWay Unfortunately I don’t think every poster has read the OP since it has reached page 4. It would be great if all the female enthusiasts chimed in as their insights/perspective are really valuable!
It is unfortunate that lots of people don't go back and at very least browse from the beginning.
For the O.P. if I was giving advice to a male enthusiast friend in here ... I would say to vette the situation, make sure you let it be known you are only looking for unpaid cuddles, and see how they respond to that. If given an sort of sob story about needing money for car repairs or late rent etc.. I would politely decline because it is not your problem. Especially if it is the first or even up to 3rd time cuddling such person for free. Unless you truly feel called to help. Happily move forward but stay aware ... I guess would be my best advice. And I say this because of how often I hear stories from men here saying they were taken advantage of. Happy cuddling 🫂
Wow, we seem to have enthusiastIC famous people on here 😲
As an enthusiast, I reached out first several times when enthusiastic about interesting profiles I came across. Sadly most of those guys ghosted at some point, so not gonna happen again soon.
I always message people!!
Before becoming a pro cuddler, I messaged men first when I was an enthusiast.
Thank you @MeltMyWay and @ProfHermes I had that same thought and didn’t say anything either 😆
Though some of the information given in this thread was useful and I did find out the person was real and met them in person before having a cuddle session with them the next day
So it indeed isn’t impossible
@Jeremiaaahhh yay I love that so so much. Happy cuddles 🫂🫂🫂
@Jeremiaaahhh So stoked you met up with that enthusiast! 🧸
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@Jeremiaaahhh It’s always good to see a success story! Positive vibes! 👏