@jonnyquest she may have been banned for trying to avoid the site fee. People sometimes schedule sessions and then cancel after exchanging contact info so they don’t have to pay the 15% fee. You can get banned for breaking any of the site rules.
@pmvines The crazy part was we spent the first 15-20 minutes discussing boundaries, her being adamant that she's not here for that type of session, she's not here to be anyone's girlfriend.. So when I checked my email this morning and looked at a message saying that my session had been canceled and then I clicked on the link and found out that she's been banned my jaw hit the floor..
@BlueIris thank you. As I suspected it could be lots of reasons, @jonnyquest this appears to be a great opportunity to let go and move on. It’s very freeing
@ShaneSchrute Oh I already sent a proposal to another Pro for a session a couple weeks from now.. Moving on isn't an issue, I was just shocked when I saw the email cuz I dang sure wasn't expecting that..
Ok.
I was chatting with a Pro and shortly after I see “banned” next to their name but in our conversation it shows “paused”. Can some clarify please and thank you kindly?
@TattooSqueeze yeah pause can be a few things. Likely a violation of one of the TOS. The pause status is because the issue is currently being reviewed.
I’m curious about what timeout means? I was also talking with a pro and now I see timeout.
I’ve met quite a lot of ‘pros’ here whom offer extra ‘services’, and don’t want the client to pay through the site; rather cancel and text. Off topic. - BlueIris
Off topic. - BlueIris
@TattooSqueeze An account can also be paused due to a payment issue.
@Kaybloom A timeout is a temporary lockout from the forum or the site. It can be for breaking forum rules or repeatedly breaking site rules.
@ShaneSchrute @BlueIris Mahalo for the clarity on pause status!
@RadiantHugs I'm getting a few message requesting, mentioning and finding it stated in quite a few profiles that they're wanting massage. Is this something you report or is simply letting them know that's not allowed enough? I had one person say he was looking to cuddle but changed his mind to massage. I informed him I don't do that and he could be banned and he did. It seems like they're not getting the memo.
@RaniKahli massage is not permitted. I’d say if you come across such a profile just report. We normally just message them to change their profile. If someone messages you and asks for massage, simply state you don't do that.