@jonnyquest she may have been banned for trying to avoid the site fee. People sometimes schedule sessions and then cancel after exchanging contact info so they don’t have to pay the 15% fee. You can get banned for breaking any of the site rules.
@pmvines The crazy part was we spent the first 15-20 minutes discussing boundaries, her being adamant that she's not here for that type of session, she's not here to be anyone's girlfriend.. So when I checked my email this morning and looked at a message saying that my session had been canceled and then I clicked on the link and found out that she's been banned my jaw hit the floor..
@BlueIris thank you. As I suspected it could be lots of reasons, @jonnyquest this appears to be a great opportunity to let go and move on. It’s very freeing
@ShaneSchrute Oh I already sent a proposal to another Pro for a session a couple weeks from now.. Moving on isn't an issue, I was just shocked when I saw the email cuz I dang sure wasn't expecting that..
Ok.
I was chatting with a Pro and shortly after I see “banned” next to their name but in our conversation it shows “paused”. Can some clarify please and thank you kindly?
@TattooSqueeze yeah pause can be a few things. Likely a violation of one of the TOS. The pause status is because the issue is currently being reviewed.
I’m curious about what timeout means? I was also talking with a pro and now I see timeout.
I’ve met quite a lot of ‘pros’ here whom offer extra ‘services’, and don’t want the client to pay through the site; rather cancel and text. Off topic. - BlueIris
Off topic. - BlueIris
@TattooSqueeze An account can also be paused due to a payment issue.
@Kaybloom A timeout is a temporary lockout from the forum or the site. It can be for breaking forum rules or repeatedly breaking site rules.
@ShaneSchrute @BlueIris Mahalo for the clarity on pause status!
@RadiantHugs I'm getting a few message requesting, mentioning and finding it stated in quite a few profiles that they're wanting massage. Is this something you report or is simply letting them know that's not allowed enough? I had one person say he was looking to cuddle but changed his mind to massage. I informed him I don't do that and he could be banned and he did. It seems like they're not getting the memo.
@RaniKahli massage is not permitted. I’d say if you come across such a profile just report. We normally just message them to change their profile. If someone messages you and asks for massage, simply state you don't do that.
Is there a way to see why a particular cuddler got banned? What I mean is, there's someone that I've met with once, had an absolutely great time… And now that person is banned. I can't for the life of me figure out how they would get banned based off of the interaction I had. But for reasons of safety if something particularly bad happened because of the cuddler (i.e. The cuddler stole something from the house, got inappropriate, got violent, etc.) that could be information to keep me safe. is there a way to see why their account got banned?
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/25779/why-might-a-persons-account-be-banned/p1
@TableSpoon Why a person was banned is not public information.
So I started to thread earlier asking this question and now the thread is gone. So I'm gonna ask again in here and hopefully I can get an answer:
Is there a way to know WHY someone got banned? The reason I'm asking is because I met with a cuddler who was absolutely fantastic. When I went to contact her again her account was banned. Based off of my experience with her I can't for the life of me figure out why she would've gotten banned, however as a person who's met with her once and may want to meet with her again it would be nice to know if this person did something bad like stealing, getting inappropriate or even violent.
I think there should be a way for cuddlers to know this information and more particular as opposed to just people just randomly getting banned and no one knows why. If something bad in fact it did happen we should be able to know that so we don't contact them again. So I'm curious if there's an answer to that and if this question can stay instead of getting my last post removed also without an explanation.
Your question has been answered above.
For having douchecanoe qualities
@TableSpoon How would you contact her again if she's banned? If you exchanged numbers, you can ask her 🤷🏽♀️ A ban means a serious violation of the rules.
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There are 2 and ONLY 2 fundamental reasons get banned:
Money: CC is not getting paid what they are owed. Nothing personal. Strictly business.
Liability: The platform cannot be seen as enabling prostitution, harassment or anything that can show up in a criminal or civil court.
Everything else is just semantics and gossip.
@WBNJ973 People are getting banned for misbehaving on the forums too (that makes 3)
Not sure why some of these answers are "off topic" when it explains how someone could have had their account "banned": They were discussing matters which had nothing to do with being banned. So they were off topic. I did not want the thread derailed with things that are off topic. - BlueIris _ Mod: feedback.
@krishna i did ask and she said it was a bad review. I cant read said review. If a person hypothetically did something bad that theyre ashamed of, would they necessarily just tell you the truth if you asked them? My over arching point is to protect the people on this site anf there should probably be a way for users to know what, specifically, the ban is about.
@TableSpoon is there a reason you keep pushing for information none of us but the moderators are privy to?