Hello there, dear reader! Something has been on my mind as of late, and I’d very much like to ask you some questions.
How important is it that you feel more powerful than your cuddle partner?
That might seem a bit vague. Let me go into more detail.
Does having more physical strength than your cuddle partner make you feel comfortable? Would you feel uncomfortable if someone who could pose a threat to you wanted to cuddle? Conversely, do you find yourself more inclined to cuddle with someone who is seemingly weaker than you (they’re shorter, weigh less, are compelled by society to appear dainty,etc)?
These questions aren’t aimed at any particular person or group of people.