Profile: "I like and want all these things."
Real life: "I don't know. Maybe I just liked imagining and saying these things, but I'm afraid of actually doing them."
So is this mostly a soundboard for cuddly thoughts sometimes? Most I've seen here abandon, shy away from actually connecting, making plans, getting together, following through, doing anything in real life or even virtually... so are we ruled by fear and pop-culture stigma and peer pressure, or do we actually want what we say we want?
I'm not into hyper-critical and comformative pop-culture or religious boxes, I believe people should be honest about what they want (in the right places) because it's a part of who they are, and actually go for what they want, not shy away because they're afraid of real-life connecting or touch or the complications of communication or not fitting into expected cultural norms... otherwise they're like a flower behind glass in a room with a little window with the sun shining in where the rays something cross the glass, and they wilt and stay in their boxes in their separate rooms saying sometimes that they want to be together.
Is this natural human behavior? "I want the things but not really". Is it not easy enough? Are we confused? Why do we seem to keep choosing to stay in our boxes or shut the window or burrow into the dirt instead of going out into the world with the fresh sunlight and air and earth where we can interact to get what we want?
Maybe we we want something other than we say we want... and would prefer to be in a different box?