I see occasional mention of "love languages", which I don't really know about, but it sounded positive and life-affirming so I wikied it. The first thing it mentioned was that these skills/capacities are intended for romantically bonded couples. That's fine for that realm, but here it sounds risky. Being fuzzy about what platonic cuddling is, is probably not good for this place. On the other hand, we could certainly borrow things that are important in romantic relationships of they don't compromise the safety and platonic ideals of cuddlers.
Could anybody weigh in on this? Could we perhaps have some new languages for cuddlers?