Younger men an issue for cuddler's / professionals?

jadc2039jadc2039
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I (21m) am curious on what your thoughts & opions are on someone my age seeking out this type of service.

Majority of the men I see on here and the forums are much older than me. Is it off putting or weird for someone like me to use the service? The general census that I have gathered from posts and word of mouth is that cuddlers mainly cater to the needs of older senior men?

Is this true? I'm fairly new still any advice or thoughts apricated!

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  • BrotherB3arBrotherB3ar

    I'm actually curious about this topic as well. I'm 27m and I've been told by a few cuddles that I was too young for them to cuddle despite some being only a couple years difference.

  • [Deleted User]FriendlyFemale (deleted user)
    edited July 2024

    Pro female here...depends how young you look. If you're not willing to provide ID and you appear to be jail bait, then I'm out. If it is obvious that you are old enough, then there is no problem for me.

    I know this is all platonic, but I don't even wanna get caught up in a "misunderstanding" by parents or cops

  • CuddlesofcuddleCuddlesofcuddle

    @FriendlyFemale very well said. I agree

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    @jadc2039

    older senior

    What’s your definition of older senior?

    I joined CC when I was 43 so already older. I’ve heard strippers say they target older men cause they’re the ones with the money, maybe it’s the same thing here 💸🤑

    Sorry, don’t have an answer for you on this one but I’m curious to see what people say.

  • jadc2039jadc2039

    @Morpheus to me senior would be men on the site my fathers / grandparents age. So around 50-75 years old.

    I find it an issue personally because I haven't been able to cuddle with someone my own age or younger yet. I'm assuming older men generally don't have that issue whatsoever.

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    All right female cuddles, what do you all think?

  • [Deleted User]FriendlyFemale (deleted user)

    @Cuddlesofcuddle 😁🫶

  • IronicMaidenIronicMaiden

    With that much age difference, it would have to be someone I know well enough to be comfortable with. That applies to any gender.

  • AimeeJAimeeJ

    I'm not a Pro, but I would guess everyone is different. I do not ever find age (or weight, race gender etc) off putting or weird. Each person and interaction is unique. Everyone has their own reason for being here.

  • CuddleHugs01234CuddleHugs01234

    The forums don’t represent the total cuddling participants. I think the forum is 10% or less of the cuddlers on the website. Please don’t go by the forums as a representation of all the cuddlers.

    I do get an ID for private cuddling, for my safety purposes, and I’ve cuddled people in their early twenties all the way up to early seventies. As long as it’s platonic, and the person agrees to the terms of service on here, anyone 18 or older can cuddle.

    Some of my best cuddlers have never posted one word in the forum, and some don’t read it at all. One of my best cuddlers is in his early twenties. I think he reads this some, so I do hope he sees this. :) He’ll know who he is.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    Sometimes I think the older men can afford the price of pro cuddling. If you're looking for an enthusiast ( non paid) you may do well. I've had several clients in their 20s and 30s I've had as young as 18. But I will cuddle anyone with good intentions, and that can afford it. I don't think there should be an age barrier everyone needs cuddles. Hope you can find what you're looking for.

  • [Deleted User]Dyl_Pickle (deleted user)

    I know that this question isn't directed at me (male), but I would ask for an ID if the client looks like they could be too young. It's better safe than sorry. That's for any gender.

  • Sunrise_SnuggleSunrise_Snuggle

    Not true.

  • xandriarainxandriarain

    I have many clients in their 20s and 30s and even a few 18/19 year olds. People find themselves lonely and in need of touch at all stages of life. It is not weird at all for younger people to seek out this service

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    It didn't even occur to me to worry that any of the guys here might be minors. But that is something to think about.
    I've always felt like I would know.

    I personally like for cuddle partners to be at least in their late 20s because the mindset between early 20s and 60+ is too great. I have heard one other cuddler say the same and she was younger than me. But I think if ages 18-25 want to be here that's fine. It's just there are so few people here that age that if you want to cuddle your age it will be really difficult to find a partner.

  • CuddleBuddy206CuddleBuddy206

    I don’t have any issues with younger men other than they are often (NOT ALWAYS) immature.

    I’ve also met younger men who were more mature and respectful than older men. So, you never really know. But that’s my main reason for being skeptical when a younger man reaches out to me.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod
    edited July 2024

    Professionals are not permitted to refuse clients on the grounds of age. If one does, please Report them.

    The Requirements to apply for listing as a professional are: (my emphasis)

    • You have a photo to attach.
    • You can be affectionate to anyone.
    • You are accepting of all races, ages, genders, and sexual orientations.
    • You should be reliable with strong interpersonal and communication skills.
    • You understand and agree to the Cuddler Contract.

    Is it off putting or weird for someone like me to use the service?

    No. It's completely normal. Cuddling is for everybody.

    Cuddle Comfort is a site for adults, not children, and therefore it is reasonable for professionals to ask for age ID from younger clients.

    Some professionals prefer to cuddle clients from particular groups: there is nothing wrong with that - we all have preferences - but it is not ok for a preference to become a prejudice.

    Younger men are more likely to experience an unwanted erection during a cuddle, and are less likely to have the emotional maturity to deal with it. However, this is common in cuddling and is not a big deal: an experienced or trained professional cuddler will be able to handle the situation without difficulty or embarrassment. Advice on what to do is given on the first page of @respectful's excellent FAQ sticky thread at the top of this board.

    You may also find these threads helpful:

  • wanacuddle85wanacuddle85

    Truthfully I have had some amazing sessions with 21 year old men.. they where open to learning different cuddle positions, respectful, never tried to cross any boundaries and where very interesting to talk to, we had great sessions. As long as you’re over 18 and respectful I'm willing to cuddle. Age is a number it’s about finding something to connect to.

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    Pro here.
    I will cuddle anyone with good intentions, as long as they are a legal adult (18+), age does not matter. I have cuddled people in their 20s up through 60s so far. Most of my clients seem to be 30s and 40s though.

    I will echo the others, though, that if you look very young, I'd likely ask for ID to verify.

  • AuroradreamAuroradream

    As a cuddle provider, and one over 50- the question is are younger clients an issue... and I would say there are patterns of flaky behavior (re: courtesy and communication about booking) time wasting, and disrespect which frequently come up as red flags.
    I have a son and daughter in their late 20's, and based on how much I enjoy their company and get along with their friends, I would love to share cuddle time with a younger client.
    As of yet, I haven't had a session with someone under 35, although I've had a few almost bookings which have ended up nil due inappropriate comment or a potential client being indecisive or some version of pushy. That's happened at other ages but across the board, maturity matters and so does etiquette. It's an indicator for me of how my boundaries would be respected.
    Just to clarify, I do take time when someone looks to inquire about a session to chat and exchange questions about cuddle compatibility without summarily dismissing those under 35. I often try to be helpful if they're new here. Sometimes it's just good to be kind and willing to clarify some things to someone.

  • KatotaKatota

    Age hasn't been an issue with me, I can cuddle the young as well as the old.😁

  • DarkSecretsDarkSecrets

    Some women may just feel safer, secure and comfortable in an older man’s presence. Everyone is different and the most important thing is that consent is required from both parties.

    No person should feel obliged to do something they are not comfortable with. Some may prefer older, some may prefer younger and others may not care as much.

    It’s down to each individual.

  • Katelyn_BKatelyn_B

    Age isn't an issue for me. I'm happy to cuddle with any adult who is nice.

  • [Deleted User]Fematheist (deleted user)

    Thank you, OP, for posing this question.. Don't think I've ever really sat down and examined my own preferences, as far as cuddling. The times I've been on the site, I just could never get comfortable with cuddling a person who was even younger than my own children. Even though I take the platonic nature of cuddling very seriously, there's a boundary there, that feels plain "icky" to cross.. Not that you, or any other young person is in any way "icky," it's just part of my own, personal neurosis! lol

    I think, too, that because I LOVE hearing Life Stories, I don't honestly believe that the experience necessary for such stories is available to those who are just starting out in the adult world. Flame me, okay, but that's just how >> I << see it, and wanted to answer this...

  • UREverythingUREverything

    50 is the new 25 until my knees say its the new 70

  • Calming_HugsCalming_Hugs
    edited July 2024

    I've noticed quite a variety of ages at cuddle workshops, at a guess 22 to early 70s.

  • BripicBripic
    edited July 2024

    Pro Female.

    For me, age has nothing to do with whether or not I accept a session. I am here to provide a professional, therapeutic service. As long as someone is 18+ my descretion is based on feeling comfortable with my clients.

    🤗

  • ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes

    I wonder what the reasons men have for not cuddling younger women, if there are any reasons. I'm sure there are i can think of many.

  • PeopleRcoolPeopleRcool

    I have tons of clients of all ages there are plenty of 20-27 year olds on this platform. Age is not a factor here. The only reason more users are older is because they are more likely to be able to afford the service.

  • Mela_BMela_B

    I have cuddled everyone from 18 - 65. I don't discriminate and it's not weird or off putting to me because it's platonic. Everyone needs to be cared about. 💜

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