Over the past year, I have noted a number of posts that complain about the ratio of men enthusiasts compared to the number of female enthusiasts. The statistics I recall were 18 to 1 or somewhere close. I truly believe there are many women that are open to platonic cuddling in the right environment. When the statistics stat drifting in a disparate direction, I wonder if it is not the environment itself that is contributing to the problem. Fortunately for the world, I am not a woman consequently therefore am no expert when commenting on female issues. But as men, if we could find a way to favorably to improve interactions--maybe the ratios would start improving. One thing that I believe is vastly unappreciated is the sure strength it takes for a woman to open themselves to the environment. They have to worry about safety, perceptions, uninvited boundary pushes even when the rules are known and clearly been identified, labeling, as well as a whole host of other issues. Men may have some of these concerns but to a much lesser extent. I imagine new female members are bombarded with requests-for sessions --perhaps giving them a little space to breathe would be helpful---especially before judging them. Instead of complaining about the problems--perhaps we should take a look at our own actions to see if we could do something about ourselves differently. Good behavior certainly would make the environment more inviting (please note--this is a general statement--no one is being called out).