@Warmth_Seeker I'm just letting my creative juices flow. Nothing I have posted in this particular thread have I actually seen as a cuddle pick up line. I'm just advising how NOT to go about it for newbies who need to know
@creedhands so, what lines should I use when proposing a cuddle?
@Warmth_Seeker Speaking as a nonpro enthusiast, I like when someone makes a comment about my profile picture, something in my profile, something in a forum post that I wrote (my favorite).
A small sampling of intro messages that resulted in some kind of a conversation with me:
55 m in here. Would love to meet next time your in .
Hi I’m and I’ve been seeing professional cuddliest for 5 years now!! Your picture intrigued me because of your humor you displayed by posting it!! I read all your bio and would love for you to send me some pics of yourself!! I also wish you lived closer!!
Awe i adore you!!! (in response to a nice thing I said on a forum post of his)
Hi there. I just finished reading a forum that you were in. You sound like a very wonderful cuddler.
Hello there! I will be traveling for a week to Denver during the week of October 12th. I will be landing on the 12th evening. I have never experienced other cuddlers on this site. I would love to start my cuddle journey with you, only if you are interested. Please let me know. Cheers,
This is all new to me. I just want t feel a little love. Let me know if you want to meet.
Thanks for calling out that bullying / top-dogging behavior.
Hello. I have to say thats the most interesting profile picture I have ever seen. Ever come to ? If so, I would love to cuddle. I'm more than happy to pay you for you travel and time. I'm currently working and staying here for a few more months. I'll attach a picture of myself. Though I'm no model I'm pretty normal as you can read in my reviews. Thank you
Hi there, I just wanted to introduce myself and find out a little more about you. I enjoyed reading your profile. It was certainly one of the more interesting ones on this site. What kind of hobbies and interests do you have?
Hi, I find a statement in your bio interesting: "Men's bodies in particular are very grounding" Does that mean their shape, feel, size, or something else? I'm just curious of reasons and feelings specifically there. I was talking to a male here recently that said even guys find his big muscle-ish body to be inspiring and comforting, and some that said they would never cuddle with a guy did with him because for those reasons, which your statement sounds similar to. Oh, I'm also curious about your pic.
Hi there, I’m . I see Colorado and Lawrence as your locations. Are you currently in Lawrence or visiting soon? I’m about 45 minutes away in the area. Your cuddle karma is strong! Hi there! I am so amazed and just honored to have come across such an amazing profile. I found you by browsing around the “Recently Online” section. My name is and it is really nice to meet you . If I was there, I would very much give you a handshake and a hug. But I will do so on here 🤝🤗. I like how you mentioned youthful spirit because I mentioned on my profile being an old soul with a youthful spirit. So high five to you 🖐. I have always been told I’m an old soul and I very much connect to people of all ages. Some people get jealous of how I can connect with ladies older than myself. I’ve always been mature and people always get shocked when I tell them I’m . I was reading your profile and your karma. You honestly feel like one of the nicest I’ve met on here. Yes you can show me a pic when you message me and I can definitely show a more recent picture. I’m currently going through a change in life where I haven’t cuddled in 10 months. So I really have been a person that values amazing convos about life and just forming a genuine connection. I feel like I can with you from reading your profile and karma. I’m in but originally from . Would you be open to being friends? How have your experiences been off this website? It would be wonderful to know your name as well. Hugs and Warmth,
Hi! I'm in . Would love to cuddle with you sometime, as you sound very warm and kind
@littermate Thanks for the help. I think I know what to write.
@Warmth_Seeker you're always in the right track when you listen to @littermate . Also, I notice your bio is not lacking. That helps as well. As I comment a bit in the forums, I also tell my potentials to check out certain threads to get an idea of who I am.
@warmtouch just be friendly without giving a hitting on you creepster vibe and you should be ok
That's super funny that after my comment here, I received messages exactly like I described them here. The typical meeting in hotel request during a specific week, the here's my phone number let's talk request.
I'm feeling blessed if someone sends more than two sentences that make it clear that they have actually read my profile.
@sillysassy Thank you so much! I have had people complaining that I wrote too much ☺️
Awwwwwww @wrench what an enjoyable profile read and a really heart-warming smile!!! Its comforting to know that its not only the ladies who get the 3 letter communications. 😊
@Spongymarble AGREED!!!
hahahaha Omgosh Profiles are especially important in the enthusiast aspect of this. I figure if they can't read the paragraph that has been written to give them an indication of WHO and what they are trying to connect with then it will probably be a waste of EVERYONE's time!!
Omg 😂😂
Bwahaha @sillysassy !!! I figure I'll update my profile pic in the post-covid world.
@creedhands You made my day, thank you (blush). @pmvines "hitting on you creepster vibe" hahahahaha
@littermate sometimes it really is just that simple lol
@pmvines Totally. It's so nice when someone approaches me simply as a fellow human rather than something to hustle.
@sillysassy thanks 😁
Just about anything like this = 😬💭(uh... nope.)
Ahahaha!
Oh my.
Here is one my friend just got today 🙄
I am very attracted to your natural beauty. Should I release beforehand or is that something we can do together?
"I like to cuddle during football. What size shoulder pads do you wear?"
@UltimateChungus OMG that is scary. Everything bad comes to mind.
Everyone mentioned everything except one word replies: Yes Hey Okay Nice Lol
🙄you get the picture. Always a waste of time. My answer is usually, “No thanks”.
@pmvines ugh. Hope they were reported.
"I am your destiny."
Can we also mention when you do start a chat with someone and they never reply at all?
@wrench
People already whine about that with some frequency here.
"I'm a time traveler. Future you asked me to come to past you (which is right now present you) to tell you how much you enjoy cuddling with me, and that future you would be very upset with past (present) you if you did not accept this cuddle request.
"I just lost 150 pounds, and I want to celebrate with you before she finds her way back."
@creedhands ~ Lol! If I got something like that time traveler one, they'd get a reply for sure! That's just the kind of 'nerd alert' weirdness I'm into sometimes... 🤷♀️
@creedhands that would get a response for certain haha