About me
I genuinely love this job, but I have another job that is extremely demanding and which takes priority over this one, so PLEASE respect my time. When you meet me either in person or virtually, you will discover that I am extremely warm, so I'm sorry to sound stern here, but I need to be absolutely clear: what this means is that I am not looking for pen pals. Do not message me to make small talk or to try to get anything from me for free, such as photos or virtual sessions. I already have two sufficiently recent photos on here, you don't need me to send you personal photos, especially if you're not willing to pay for them. I love learning people's stories and engaging conversation and safe touch are genuinely the two things that I think are most nourishing to any human soul, so it is an honour to me to be someone who provides that. Please treat both me and this service with the same respect that I have for it so that I can continue to look forward to every session and every aspect of this job, including the administrative side of it, which as you can probably tell from this paragraph, I have found trying at times.
I love most of my clients and I'm totally open to becoming friends with people I connect with especially well, but I must clarify that if you wish to cuddle, it will always be remunerated. It's like how I've gone for drinks with my profs that I connected with really well when I was in uni but I still obviously paid to attend their classes lol. Or an even more parallel example would be how years ago I had a lovely therapist with whom I'd sometimes grab lunch because she was very cool and open to befriending her clients, but I still always paid her for counselling. So, please don't take offense when I insist on getting paid for my job lol. When I connect really well with a client, the affection feels genuine because it is; it really, truly is, despite the transactional nature of our relationship. The principle of the transactional aspect is important to me because I don't date. At all. My priority is my complete independence. That's why I love this job so much: I can still give and receive affection and platonic intimacy without any of the risks of dating. Even casual personal affectionate relationships have been very traumatic for me, so I'm not comfortable cuddling on my free time, no matter how much you insist you won't fall in love with me or you'd be a safe boyfriend or a safe casual cuddle buddy; I don't care, that does not interest me at all. I am extremely good at this job because I love it and respect it and I respect and love my clients in both the platonic and agapeic senses - and only in those senses.
I don't host, but I'm willing to travel to you wherever you are as long as you cover the cost of my travel - if you live in London this is usually around £20 for the journey there and back since I actually live just outside of London technically. However, something I frequently get asked on here is how I like to cuddle, and if I had to specify something, I love trading massages. I spend a total of five hours a day biking to and from my other job, so I can always use a good back massage. If you do a really good job, I'll omit the travel fee :)
I also offer virtual sessions for only £50/ session regardless of duration :)
I'm also happy to travel or just spend the day with you for only £500/ day (all travel costs must be covered by the client).
If you cancel on the day of the session, then the next session will require a deposit of half the full price of the session.
Please read all of the site rules before messaging me, for I will ignore any questions that are already answered by the rules listed here.
Also, I have short hair now (the pic in the white dress is from Christmas 2025, the one in the purple top is current).
This job is a wonderful reprieve from my much more cerebral job, so I look forward to switching off and unwinding with you and sharing our souls, minds, and bodies (platonically, of course). Every person is a world within themself, so I appreciate your trust in letting me into your world. Due to my consistent regard for boundaries, rest assured that your trust in me will never be misplaced. I will hold your heart with as much care as I hold my own - and that's with a rather great deal of care xx