Africancuddlequ

I am fortunate to say I have met genuine humans who choose to share and connect through touch on this platform.
I have a few who I am enjoying consistent cuddle sessions with which puts the work and nerves of an initial meet to the back burner as I know and they know what we get to share together.

I'm very tactile. I enjoy touch; touching, cuddling and hugging. So I am open to meeting new people but I prefer to meet people who are looking for a regular cuddle with someone they've built trust with.

I am a bit of a workaholic so on my downtime I rest, spend time on the beach (which thankfully is 45 seconds from my front door) and cuddle when possible.

Living in a world where we are often too busy and get swallowed up in a little of everything, nothing brings bliss than feeling another human's heart beating in tandem with my own and being able to just breathe.

I am not open to any cuddling interaction without a prior phone conversations, texts, in person casual meeting(s) before moving interactions forward.

I do not host ever but may suggest a hotel meet up for a cuddle until I feel safe with a cuddle partner then may cuddle with you at your home if we agree to cuddle more regularly.

Cleanliness is non negotiable including for clothed cuddles. We are touching and taking in each other's scent so being clean and smelling fresh adds to ease and connection during a cuddle.

Depending on how comfortable I am with you, once we have met we can have seated or cuddles laying down.

It is important for communication throughout our session so we are clear on where each of us are. I often like to start with a lap pillow or bear hug as we get to know each other and get comfortable. When laying down the spoon and weighted blanket are my most favourite cuddle positions, I also like to move in order for us to find our rhythm.

With the weather getting a touch nippy, we may not get hikes in but I'm sure we can think of activities like reading together or to each other or co-creation of prose.

Conversation will get my attention or a profile with more than a couple of words strung together.

For me respect and consent are key in building any sort of interaction that would create a firm foundation for us to contemplate a cuddling relationship.

We would need to create a space safe to share our needs and be able to negotiate while understanding that we both must be able to find a middle. When no agreed clear middle exists we are at a NO thus closing the conversation without being unpleasant to each other.