About me
To tell you why I am on here in a nutshell: I've been consistently asexual my whole life, but I didn't discover what the word even meant until I was in my early 30's. Growing up, I always thought there were just three sexualities: gay, straight and bi, and everyone fit into one of them. After going on many dates (and occasionally having sex, believing this was something I was obligated to do because I believed everyone needed to do it), I simply was not like my other guy friends who wanted to "sleep" with someone on the first or second date. I have a healthy sex drive, but I just didn't have sexual attraction for the other person (and people) I was with.
Instead, I always wanted to cuddle. I have high romantic attraction to someone I like. If I am genuinely interested, I will get the person flowers or gifts. I would give them hugs, kisses and cuddles. I am physically very affectionate and love that to be returned. But sex was something that was never on the top of my list. I'm not repulsed by having sex; I am just ambivalent towards it. It is not something that I feel compelled to do.
My friends and family don't know this about me and not even my parents. The only ones who know this is my best friend and my brother. So, you are privy to a secret. :)
More about me: I own a successful law practice on Long Island. I feel very lucky to be my own boss, but of course, this comes with its own stresses. On my free time, I like to play tennis, play poker and chess, read history, write novels and travel.
And for me, cuddling helps to reduce stress. I love it.
Finally, I like to dress well. I wear cologne (have both Versace and Calvin Klein), including deodorant and after shave balm. I brush my teeth daily and use mouth wash and mints. I like to look good and smell good. Of course, as some people have smell sensitivity, I would ask before we see each other to make sure I can wear them.
Facts
Join Date |
May 2021 |
Orientation |
Straight |
Status |
Single |
Cuddles |
Women |
Can be |
Host |
Preferred Days |
Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat |
Preferred Times |
Morning, Evening, Night |
Preferred Age |
18 - 40 |
Location: |
Hicksville, NY |
Body Type |
Average |
Car Owner |
Yes |
Drinks |
Rarely |
Smokes |
No |
Ethnicity |
White |
Religion |
Judaism |
Job |
Attorney |
No friends to show yet :(
No Cuddle Karma just yet. You can write about your cuddle experience with Andrewesq once you have exchanged a few messages.