About me
I am down to earth sincere and sensitive. I love great deep hugs. I love to be held sincerely n love to rock a little sometimes. Would love to feel the strong embrace of a man. I have a great sense of humor, and enjoy deep conversations.
I would like to say right off that I am only interested in men from my area, and men close to my age. I am not interested in married men because it makes me feel like I am helping them cheat on their wives...that really bothers me. I am also interested in men who are well groomed and clean. I like men who have groomed facial hair. I like men who have motorcycles and like to ride. Men who do not take care of themselves or have a permanent frown fixed to their face make me feel like they would just bring me down and my life is complicated enough. If you are optimistic and enjoy being positive in nature and have an adventurous spirit. Those are my favorite people. I am also into men who have dark eyes and dark hair, don't know why, but I love the Italian looking men, and the olive complexions though if you are blonde, brunette or black haired with blue, green or hazel eyes, please say hi as well. I am not closed minded to knowing other men.
I am divorced and either keep finding men who cheat or will not commit, so this puts me at a "lab partner at life" situation, which is perfectly fine with me.
I just know its very hard to go without human contact. For some of us who are very expressive and passionate at life, it can be unbearable. Sometimes you wonder "whats wrong with me", but in all honesty you know there's nothing wrong with you, and that is what life has become for many. People don't feel safe and they are weary from past relationships. I get that, but I am not willing to be a hermit until I die. I have too much love to give.
NOTE: I have trust issues too, many men give me their phone numbers but I hesitate to call because I have been stalked in the past and hurt by men in my past. I would much rather, at first, text and get to know you, just like I would rather meet publicly first before I would consider going to your private residence.
Also, I am finding many men on here will give no picture and little information. To my mind, if I am giving my all and you all can see me, and know a little about me I should be afforded that same respect. Please put your pictures up and some info about yourselves on your profiles!! Thank you!!!!
Please do not write me and say things like. "Is it because I am black, or Asian or any kind of race. That really angers me because, to my mind you are attempting to obligate me into meeting you and seeing you. That is SO WRONG, and I have had it happen often. So don't do it. JUST DON'T!! I WILL NOT PLAY YOUR GAME!!!
I WILL DELETE YOUR CHAT TO ME.
Bottom line. I need to be meaningfully held. I need human contact before I go crazy and ...I am running on fumes here.
This concept of cuddling might not be a bad idea either. People want to know who they are with are safe and enjoyable to be with, can be trusted, wont lie...will be real and have common ground before they agree to go all in.
I always hated the term "Activity partner" because it always sounded so distant and aloof, senior citizen appeal but it is what you make of it. I also hate feeling like I am just someone you just use... which is why i like the term "Lab partner at life", because it sounds like something one commits to discovering life. Like two people that are inquisitive and adventuresome... and that's what I'm hoping for... someone who wants to explore more in life n doesn't just wanna be a couch potato. I like people with depth n witt and just wanna live life and learn with someone else. Someone who is both hungry to explore life and seeks knowledge.
Anyway, I don't have any expectations, and maybe its better that way, but in all honesty, I will always hope for more. Who wouldn't? Who knows, maybe if we clicked, whomever I meet on here,....maybe quality of life would become better for both of us, huh? I am willing to see and I'm also willing to remain only humbly hands off until such time as there may be sunshine!!! How's that?