Calm_One

45 - Man - Holmfirth, England, GB

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About me

Hello and
welcome to my profile.

Why I cuddle and why I'm here...

I'm naturally tactile and cuddling with its clear health benefits has now become an integral part of my healthy lifestyle, alongside regular exercise like hiking and wild swimming. My interests are wide and varied, but typically have a positive health and wellbeing element to them. I have a new interest in sound healing / gong meditation. 😌

I am happy, easygoing and quiet in nature with a positive attitude. I've been very lucky in life and a few years ago I was able to comfortably quit the rat race to secure a better quality of life.

I would now describe myself as an experienced and confident cuddler and regularly meet with some lovely local cuddle friends. I also have many longer distance connections who I may only see a few times a year, but I always look forward to reconnecting and embracing whenever possible. 🫂
Although the majority of my cuddle friends are female of similar age, I place absolutely no restrictions on age or gender. Having a shared outlook is far more important than anything else. And if you feel aligned, I'd really love to hear from you.

There is no exclusivity attached to any of these platonic friendships so I am always happy to make new positive connections, near or far. 🤗

I've been cuddling for about 9 years now, but haven't forgotten that accepting human touch in this context can be quite challenging for some when it's their first time. I am always mindful of this with newbies - I believe taking things slowly with gentle starting exercises and good ongoing communication is the best approach (details on request)🫂

Unlike many on here I am not here exclusively for chat (no criticism of those who are 😉) and I am clear about what I want - creating nourishing new friendships and real connections where wholesome physical touch feels as safe and as natural as it should.
If you feel this way too I'd love to hear from you.
I am grateful to have so many lovely cuddle friends in my life, but I know this can sometimes put people off. It shouldn't because Quality Time is my primary love language, and this extends to cuddle connections - so rest assured that I will pause/remove my profile if it gets to the point where this would be compromised. 🤗

Ready to make contact?
A great cuddle connection could start with a simple 'hello' greeting 👋
Then if all's well after exchanging a few messages we could perhaps meet up for a face to face chat, primarily to see how we get along, as well as to ensure we're both on the same page regarding what we are looking for. I never arrange to cuddle without first meeting someone - I believe it's important to discuss expectations and boundaries at the outset. This may sound like the makings of a heavy conversation, but in my experience it doesn't have to be. I like to keep things light and I will always do my best to put you at ease. 🙏

Now is a great time to send me a message. I don't typically spend a lot of time on this site and I don't chase those who simply viewed my profile in the way that many seem to do - but I always appreciate and respond to genuine messages.

I look forward to hearing from you
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Joe

Facts

Join Date	July 2016
Orientation	Straight
Status
Cuddles	Everyone
Can be	Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days	Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times	Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night
Location:	Holmfirth

Height	6' 4"
Body Type	Slim
Car Owner	Yes
Drinks	No
Smokes	No
Ethnicity	White

56 - Westcliff-on-Sea

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Greengeek

9 months ago

Not wanting to be negative or anything but on here i have had my fill of timewasters weirdos and those who claim to want to cuddle but in reality just want to screw.. so it was 100% refreshing to meet a guy who is true to his word. Jo and i have met 3 times so i feel i can write something here. So I'm still working on past trauma issues but i can honestly say that i felt relaxed and most importantly SAFE in his arms so obvs i have no hesitation in recommending Jo

LoLaLoLoLoLa

1 year ago

It was lovely meeting Joe. We had a great cuddling connection and I am looking forward to making this a regular thing :))

Veronic

1 year ago

I really needed those cuddles 🥹 thank you for being lovely and for showing me around Yorkshire too !
I know we live far apart but lets not let that be a problem. Your welcome up in Glasgow anytime. Thank you for being you 🥰

Witchywoo69

1 year ago

I thought our first cuddle might be awkward but it really wasn't at all.Quite the opposite . I felt safe with Joe and this allowed me to open up to relax and enjoy our cuddle in a way I never expected . Feeling safe is very important to me. Its funny that after our first cuddle it felt like I'd known Joe for ages!

Peacefulness85

1 year ago

I only normally bother with reviews for complaining! But I really wanted to speak about the wonderful connection I made with Joe at the weekend. I'm new here but not new to cuddling, having done mental health embrace therapy for a while with various groups/festivals etc.
Joe is a natural empath, I felt his calm energy as soon as we met and this put me at ease. We met for a coffee and then continued with a short walk in the woodland. We had our first cuddle there, under a tall sycamore tree with the accompanying natural sounds of wildlife! It was beautiful. I felt fully comfortable with Joe, which doesn't always happen for me when I meet someone for the first time, yet here we were 4 hours in, holding each other in a gentle embrace.
I am really excited about continuing our cuddle journey.

L•••••b

2 years ago

Joe is a great cuddler, a good conversationalist and I feel so peaceful and safe cuddling with him. He has become a good friend whom I know I can trust.

deleted cuddler

4 years ago

I have been cuddling with Joe for a while now. He is lovely, sweet and a good listener. His very accommodating and makes me feel very safe whilst cuddling. Highly recommend him.

Megan_Cuddles

4 years ago

Felt calm and relaxed with Jo. Liked his no pressure approach and take on life. a very positive person

Soozee

6 years ago

GREAT CUDDLES!! *****

Shauna_22

6 years ago

I almost didn't meet Joe! I joined this site only last month and kinda rushed into agreeing to meet 2 guys who really should not be on here :( Both meets were awful enough to make me almost quit this site. In fact I was pretty much about to give up before I came across Joes profile. So having had 2 bad experiences there was a bit of me that kinda felt this guys too good to be true! but I decided to take a chance anyway as I really liked what he'd written. Honestly I am so glad I made contact! I was super nervous when we met for a drink but he soon put me totally at ease. I could tell straight away he was a genuine person and someone I'd like to get to know. We soon arranged our first cuddle which was so nice. Joe made me feel completely safe and it wasn't long before I felt super relaxed. The cuddles we had put me in a kind of a dreamlike state.. in a good way! I'd never come across the oxitocin stuff but now I completely get it. Joes an awesome cuddler and I really love his outlook on life, he is so positive and kind and am so glad we are now making cuddles together a regular thing.. yay! If your looking for a genuine person who will put you at ease.. honestly look no further!!

Lydia6666

7 years ago

Well what can i say.... Joe is my original cuddle buddy from when i first joined this site.. We meet often & always have a good laugh - and a good cuddle of course!! Hes a good guy and i always look forward to our time together x

I•••••5

7 years ago

I've been friends with Joe for two years now and in that time we have met to cuddle three times, as we live too far apart to meet more regularly. We always share good conversations and lots of laughter and he's a generous and kind cuddle buddy. I really appreciate his friendship and our cuddle sessions.

deleted cuddler

7 years ago

I’ve been cuddling with Joe for some months now and I can highly recommend him as a great cuddle buddy.
He is a kind, genuine, fun, interesting gentlemen.
He communicates well and is authentic.
He respects boundaries and I feel completely safe when I’m with him, which makes for a great cuddling experience.

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