Catman4

Introverted, sincere, caring, nerdy, deep into classical music, cat dad. Idiosyncratic sense of humor.

I was widowed after 28 years of marriage in February, 2023. I miss connection, ongoing conversation the most, followed by touch (hugs, cuddles, casual, passing touch, and deeper touch (which I realize is not part of this service).

In addition to classical music, I participate in international folk dancing.

I'm contacting this site as part of a broader "trying new things I've never tried before, and never thought I'd try." I'm recognizing some life patterns that may be interfering with connecting with people (particularly women), and I realize I may be telegraphing my insecurities.