CoachKenji

My best friend would likely say: honest, kind, brave, wise, and loving. Steven is 10 years my elder and we've been friends for at least 5 years. He's a bisexual man who first had a crush on me; thankfully he saw a therapist and was able to move beyond so that, even though we're 1000 miles apart, we have daily texting and weekly calls. Our friendship has been healthy, in that, we've had our differences and had to work them out.

While he and I have not cuddled he knows how emotionally mature and available I am. I have cuddled with a straight woman, who was a neighbor (I'd totally zone out!), and another gay man.

I'm new to Santa Fe and know about co-regulation; which my brain and body need. I have very, very clear boundaries and AM NOT here for any sort of sexual 'hit' and/or unconscious unmet romantic need. I have clear/clean energy and am highly empathic -- so I very, very much need you to be as well.

Glad to meet, ideally, on the phone, then zoom, and then for tea to see if we feel mutually comfortable touching and then, if mutually agreeable, trying out a cuddle session.

Spiritually I'm eclectic: Nature, light Christianity, and Buddhism (lay teacher).

Cheers and Many Thanks.