Cuddle4healing

"I've just finished a 4 hours cuddle session and I can say I honestly felt light headed for at least 30 minutes after. I felt so free of the tension I had before the session, I sent a friend an text of compassion. Literally I feel better than having a weeks holiday. All in just one afternoon."

This is why I love cuddle sessions. Everyone has their own reason and I'm here to help you with yours.

What makes me qualified to be a pro cuddler?

I have been running how to hug workshops for 4 years and teaching non sexual tantra practises to help people deepen their connections with others. In 2016 I was nominated as the UK's dating and relationship expert of the year. I am currently training in professional cuddling, sound bath healing and am an advanced Reiki Master. Vibrational & Energetic therapy is my specialty, that's what makes my cuddles so special.

I'm also authentic and a deep thinker. My clients love the option to open up during our pillow talk. I'm genuine and warm and love making people feel good. Talking is not a requirement and the best results come from our breath wor which I'm happy to guide you through. I'm also an empath and can feel everything that you feel. This makes it easier for people as I can instinctively know what you need.

How it works:

1. Read my profile carefully to make sure we are a good match.

Unless it's a direct question about my services, I only reply to messages that are of a secretarial booking nature or have followed the format below. I provide a lot of detail so that you can feel comfortable booking in a first message. I'm here to help you, but unfortunately, I've had many people spend several hours of my time 'thinking' about a session. Therefore, if you are still unsure after reading my profile, please google professional cuddling and if you are still unsure then I offer 45 min consultations for £30 via video chat.

Ready to book? The next step is:

2. Send me a message with:
-Your name
-what you hope to get out of a professional session
-Where you would like your cuddles (my home in CR7, or provide your nearest tube/train or a hired therapist room or an internet video chat to discuss)
-How long you would like your cuddles for (first in person sessions are a min 90 min, video chat is 45 min)
-What type of cuddles would you like? Causal companionship (tv watching & snuggles) more relaxed cuddles where we are in silence or chatting but laying down, or a healing session with energy, and chakra clearing and muscle tension release.
-the phrase 'heart to heart' so that I know you have read my profile and are interested in hiring me for my cuddle comfort service

MOST IMPORTANTLY
-Sent me 3 dates and times you can do

I will then reply with:
1. A bespoke quotation and recommendation will be sent to you via messaging. When you agree to it I will send...
2. A proposal to book
This is linked with payment and is a formal commitment to book my services

Cuddle talk: If you are not ready to meet in person, I offer a service that creates connection with getting to know each other with eye hugging and various cuddly interactive 'games' via video chatting. To book this service I ask people pay the cuddle comfort fee per usual. I charge £30 for a session up to 45 min. This can be arranged on a platform of your choice. We can discuss my services or find shared hobbies and chat. It's completely up to you.

1st time clients:
For new clients I recommend a special package which is a 100 min session. This includes a 30 min 'hello' session meeting nearby for a boundary and desire setting, as well as breathing techniques followed by 60 min of pure indulgent cuddles and finishing with 10 min of unwinding, discussion and goodbyes, as well as a message to check in after. The boundary setting, post cuddle chat and next day follow up is all free and included.

First ever cuddle:
We go at your pace and make sure you are comfortable at all times. I will show you step by step the different cuddle positions, and give you confidence on where its okay to touch and we can play games to start the session, like finger dancing and laughter yoga. I will also help you feel comfortable expressing your needs, and saying no.

Veteran Cuddles:
If you have been in a professional cuddle setup before, after a brief hello, we can go straight into the cuddling like old friends. We go at your pace and anything goes as long as its within the T&C of cuddle comfort.

Time keeping:

I'm very flexible but do recommend at least 90 mins of cuddling. This gives your body time to relax fully for all the health benefits.

The best cuddle time for me is 4 hours. This helps with creating a slow long lasting release of Oxytocin.

Slightly discounted rates are provided for longer sessions or to those who buy multiple sessions together.

I negotiate travel cost when a client books a hotel.

Overnight options are only available to those that who have built trust.

Each session can be completely bespoke to your needs. We can be as casual as you like and share a pizza with a movie or the session could involve a deeply meditative and euphoric experience.


Cuddle coaching: If you are having problems with your cuddle partners, I can also offering Cuddle Coaching for the same rate as cuddle talk. Anything from being respecting when someone cant see you for a period or perhaps you are the busy one and need help making your partners feel secure and respect your time. I can help with a range of emotions and guide you to finding comfort in your personal cuddles.


My rates are:

Basic cuddle such a hugging, spooning, hand holding and chair holding whilst watching TV, cooking together, going to the movies or hanging out as companions = £60 per hour with a min of 90 mins

Deeper cuddles where we lay down and focus on our breath. This is a proactive journey = £70
This is a 2 hour min and suggested 4 hour experience.

Healing cuddles are basic cuddles with a focus on tantra (non sexual) reiki and channeling energy for healing, charka clearing and stress reduction = £80 per hour with a min of 90 min

Cuddle talk is a video or phone chat session to help ease you into cuddling and create space so you are comfortable with me. = £30 for 45 min

Cuddle coaching is a video or phone chat session to help you with any personal issues or questions you have about cuddling = £30 for 45 min
Travel cost and room hire, if required, not included in fees set by Cuddle Comfort.

How to pay:

To confirm the booking, I require a non refundable £60 deposit to be paid via PayPal (you can set up an account within a few minutes) or bank transfer.

This fee can be transferred once to another date if requested with 24hrs notice.

The balance is paid when you start the session. This is because at the end of the session I'd like to leave with a feeling of connection and love and can find the money exchange a blockage for some.

If you are unhappy in any way, please talk with me and let me help you make sure you are receiving good value for the service I'm providing. I will check in with you often and we will make adjustments throughout the session so please do let me know if you need anything special.

More on money and payment:

Originally, I joined the site to find cuddle buddies in a non professional environment. I wasn't able to cuddle all the people that asked but I felt so much compassion for people who genuinely needed cuddles and decided to open up my heart to those that express an interest. It's great that they offer the pro option as it means that people who would like to connect in a safe way but are struggling to find reliable and safe cuddle comforts are able to with low risk and for the same cost as a massage on the high street.

The difference between a professional and non professional session for me is in a professional setting the pro cuddler is holding the space. I'm doing pro sessions because I'm finding a lot of people need the space held for them and the professional to go slowly at the pace of the other. This is fine for me in a professional setting but it takes a lot of energy and it is hard work to be tuned in to creating the right space for the person needing it. I very much enjoy holding this space, but my time is valuable and training in energy healing is expensive; therefore the money I make from a pro session enables me to learn more skills to apply in my sessions. In a non pro session, both people can hold the space and offer healing comfort to the other.

In a non pro session there is also an element of friendship which creates a different energy and sometimes a blockage. In a pro setting, you can come and be completely free to share and express yourself with no judgement or shame and worry that this information will be used. You can relax and be yourself without fear of rejection or any other feelings that may arise with new relationships. Our session will be very caring, nurturing and loving because it is so safe.

Hope that clarifies my intentions between a non paid vs paid session.

A paid session is a promise that all your needs will be considered, you will be pampered and indulged. With a personal cuddle, I'm looking to be equally pampered. If you feel you are able to pamper me too, please dont pay! Hahaha

If you are nervous, need someone to walk you through the steps and may have cuddle crisis as a result of our exchange or will need extra support, please make a donation to support my healer journey.

Paying is a way to exchange energy, nothing creepy about it. You wouldn't expect someone at the massage shop on the high street to give you a massage for free would you?

I'm always open to a laugh, a cry or whatever emotion our connection creates. My intentions with any cuddle session is to experience a feeling of love and support.

FQA:

What do you wear:
I usually wear a jumpsuit as its comfortable and doesnt bulk up. I tend to wear soft, fluffy clothes if I can, but often it's just what I am wearing that day. I think it's important to have some skin that people can touch, so often I wear short sleeves, and suggest my clients do the same.

The workshops I have attended on both cuddling and tantra are fully clothed, some even wearing jumpers! In advanced tantra workshops people may wear less but our sessions we will be clothed and I will end a session with anyone who suggest otherwise. I completely understand the need for platonic skin to skin contact but it is not permitted through this site.

I recommend shorts and a tshirt for cuddle sessions for my clients and I wear a jumpsuit with access to some skin contact on my arms and depending on our trust level, my back.

I see you teach tantra, is it a sexual service you offer?

No. The cuddles I offer through Cuddle Comforts as in line with the T&C. There is no nudity allowed and clothes must be worn in addition to undergarments.

Tantra has different reputation in the West than the East. In the east, all form of connections, such as looking into someones eyes are Tantric activities. Therefore, all cuddles are tantric - it just depends on what charka people are working with as if it is sexual (Second Charka) or if we are helping people feel more grounded (First Charka) or Secure (3rd Charka) for example.

What is an energetic cuddle:
All cuddles are energetic. This does not mean that we are dancing whilst cuddling. It can be still and motionlessness when we activite the charkas. The way cuddles vary energetically is just a matter of if you are transferring your own energy to the other, if you are channeling universal energy or if you are keeping your energy within and allowing transference of energy that makes them different.

With basic cuddles, we allow transference of energy just be being close to one another. With Energetic cuddles. With a tantra cuddle we are channeling energy from trees, the air and the universe to cleanse the inside of our bodies. (In short)

Do you have any links that I can read more?
Right now, I don't. I have invested in a lot of workshops and learning directly from leaders in the field of energetic medicine. But if you goggle, you will find a lot of information.

Do you ever offer free cuddle exchanges:

If you are able to hold the space for me and are comfortable creating a healing environment and live locally to me then I might be open to an exchange. But this would be for experienced cuddlers only.

More FQA to be added as people ask, so if you do have a question that will help you feel more comfortable hiring me for my cuddle comforts service, please do ask.

Wishing you warm and wonderful cuddles xx