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When were you last held by someone with nowhere else to be?

Maybe it’s been a while. Maybe you’re surrounded by people all week and still go home without anyone having put their arms around you. Or maybe you’ve never booked anything like this and aren’t sure what you’d even ask for. That’s completely fine. You don’t need to know yet.

A session with me is a calm, unhurried, non-judgemental space to be held. My attention is all yours, and there’s room to soften, sigh and let your body settle.

About me:

I’m from Brazil, where touch is ordinary and essential. It’s just how people are with each other there. We even have special words for it:

chamego: tender, snuggly closeness
dengo: longing to be held and fussed over
cafuné: fingers running gently through your head and hair
aconchego: the snug, safe feeling of being somewhere warm, or in someone’s arms

So it’s no surprise that physical touch is my main love language. I love to hold and be held, to squeeze and be squeezed, to spoon and be spooned.

I’m also on a path to do this properly. I’m studying towards the Cuddle Professionals International diploma and learning how touch and co-regulation help the body settle. I’m fascinated by the science underneath it!

How I work:

My sessions are warm, unhurried, non-judgemental and completely platonic. I want to offer a safe space to relax into touch without any expectations or agendas. A few things that keep it that way:

> Always non-sexual: no kissing, groping or sexual touch of any kind, and no sexual comments, innuendo or requests, including cat-themed “jokes”.
> Fully clothed, both of us: a top and trousers or shorts.
> Consent goes both ways: we'll talk through boundaries before we begin, and either of us can pause, adjust or say no at any point, no explanation needed.
> If a boundary isn't respected, I'll end the session, and I may report the behaviour to CuddleComfort.

If any of this feels unclear, just ask me before booking. I'd much rather you ask than guess.

Good to know:

I host in South East London, between Peckham and Nunhead. My place is up a flight of stairs, so sadly it isn’t wheelchair accessible. I’m also happy to meet in public or travel to you anywhere in London, but would require a minimum booking of 2 hours to compensate for the travel time.

Abroad: I might be in Lisbon for a couple of months at the start of 2027. I travel a lot: Brazil, Spain, Italy, EUA, BRC are some of the places I lived in or have visited recently.

When you message, say hello and tell me a little about yourself. It helps me get a feel for what you’re looking for.

PS:
The photos with short hair are my current look (cat ears included!).

For those who do read profiles: I don't have a favourite TV show (I don't even have a TV), so I've listed my favourite podcast instead. Cuddle Club with Lou Sanders is really funny!