About me
Yea, that is not my picture it is Phil Collins BUT one time I was in a hotel out on the east coast and they thought I was Phil Collins :-) It was kind of cool. I never had groupies outside my door before, well actually I didn't then either but I did fantasize a little. Ok - fantasize is the wrong word, Hoped was more like it.
With interest I have read some of the comments concerning age, particularly cuddling with a 20 year age difference. Apparently some people think it is weird to cuddle with an older guy. Why?
A 66 yo person is the same person as they were at 30 or 40 or 50. Well hopefully there is some additional maturity but essentially they are the same person, except mother nature has left a few scars. The need to be touched and cared about doesn't go away because you get older. If anything it increases. I am just like you but older :-)
When you are young there are a zillion things to do and no time to do them all. Emotions are sometimes put to the side. When you are older you spend more time thinking about what is important, and what you have missed. You want to give to others what you yourself missed.
I think there is two kinds of cuddling. The first one is the type where you are sitting on the couch watching TV and holding each other. One person has their head on the other's shoulder or maybe laying against their chest. You can stroke their arm or play with their hair. This is very relaxing and comforting.
The second type creates more of a bond between two people because you have to put more trust in the other person. This one you lay on the couch or bed and you actually feel the other persons flesh against you. Limits are still respected but usually are more open. If you face each other, that is more open to talking and watching the other persons facial expressions. Looking into that persons eyes you can get a better perspective of what that person is feeling.
If you lay behind the person that is more of holding and just letting the other person know you are there. Sometimes people don't want to talk, they want reassurance, about themselves and what the world is throwing at them.
The whole idea is to feel wanted and cared about. Different people have different ways to achieve that feeling. I don't believe in getting hung up in contracts, that is too cold. It's simple, respect the other person and that person should respect you.
Facts
Join Date |
August 2016 |
Orientation |
Straight |
Status |
Married |
Cuddles |
Women |
Can be |
Guest |
Preferred Days |
Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat |
Preferred Times |
Morning, Afternoon |
Location: |
Temperance, MI |
Height |
5' 6" |
Body Type |
Average |
Car Owner |
Yes |
Pets |
No |
Drinks |
Rarely |
Smokes |
No |
Ethnicity |
White |
Religion |
Christianity |
Job |
retired |
Children |
Has children |
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