Dimysta

***Remember that this is not a dating site. Do not treat it as such***

I like to cuddle because it is relaxing and healing.

I don't have a particular style of cuddling.
I do like to stroke hair, or up and down the back softly.
People tend to lay on me due to my resembling a pillow.

I enjoy watching movies, playing board/video games, cooking, or just doom scrolling on the couch.
Good body double if you need one to help with executive function tasks.
May even join in, if allowed to help.
But help would be a little limited due to sciatic issues.

Things that are relaxing to me that I may bring with me:

Incense and candles.
I have a scentsy if incense/candle smoke is irritating to you.
(with a lot of smell good waxes)
(I can bring over my box of incense if you'd like to choose one for the session.)
Soft blankets and squishmallows.

*Travel outside of my city will cost extra. .50/mi there AND back*
If you want a full day, during the day, it must be planned in advance so I can have time to prepare.
I would normally need at least 3 days notice prior to the proposal to make sure I can plan my home life around the booking and prepare for travel if necessary.
Holiday time frames are limited because those have to be put in a few months in advance.
Last minute proposals, or same day bookings would have to be rescheduled to fit above time frames.

Boundaries and hard limits are enforced

***Must be vaccinated with card to have booking accepted***

I do not drink alcohol.
I do not smoke anything.
I would appreciate not having to smell any type of smoke that isn't incense.
As an ex-smoker I can not handle smoke from cigarettes or broccoli.
If you do smoke, please try your hardest to rid the area and your person of the smell or I may have to cancel the session.
If offered a drink or food, out of safety, I will decline.
Depending on the length of the session and the distance, I would be bringing my own snacks and drinks due to sensory safety, unless we agree and plan to prep a meal and cook together.
If there is any kind of pressure, especially overt pressure, to do things I don't want to do, I will cancel the session.
Also if it is found that you've been drinking before the session or try to drink during the session, I will cancel it.
If found through conversation that I'm dealing with someone who is intolerant, bigoted, misogynistic, xenophobic, homophobic, transphobic or racist I will seek to have you banned for the safety of the entire community.