DrPangloss03

Hi! I'm David and I like warm hugs.

Like so many of us, I've found this pandemic absolutely draining in terms of physical touch. Hugging friends became a pretty hot commodity! Now that I'm fully vaccinated (booster scheduled!) I feel more comfortable meeting for some intimate contact, and hope I can provide others with a safe way to get that same closeness. I think it's so important for all our mental health that we not only get to socialize, but that we get to feel physically close to other people. And especially after the couple of years we've had, sometimes we want that without having to go through the rigamarole of dating apps that can bring with them the expectation of sex and romance. We just need to get our oxytocin levels up with someone we can relax and laugh with, enjoy a tv show or comedy special, just vent about the world to someone who doesn't know the people we're venting about.

I like to wear pajamas or sweatpants to cuddle, as it feels cozier to me. Let's discuss what would be comfortable for you. I can put on a pot of tea or cocoa for us (I make both really well!) and I have blankets and pillows if that will make us more comfortable as we pick something to watch. I've got some terrific streaming channels, including BroadwayHD if you're into watching musicals while you cuddle.

I will host at my apartment in my living room only. The entire apartment will be kept tidy and clean for both our comfort. The bedroom will be available for changing clothes only, if we so choose.

Intimate touch:
If you wish and ask, I will --
* Hug around shoulders, midriff, and waist
* Stroke your hair, shoulder, arm
* Make contact with skin that is not covered by clothes
I will unconditionally NOT --
* Touch anywhere under clothing
* Touch any personal areas over or through clothing
* Kiss anywhere (lips, cheek, forehead, etc.) no matter how seemingly innocent or platonic
* Touch or stroke in a sexual manner
I expect the same from you. Clear communication and consent will be required on both parties for any kind of intimate touch.

Terms of Endearment:
* If it will make you more comfortable and you'd like to ask that I call you a pet name (honey, sweetheart) we can discuss in advance.
* I will not use any terms of endearment without being asked and given the specific pet name you choose.
* I will not use any terms of endearment that are explicitly sexual in nature, nor will I use any more innocent terms of endearment in a sexual manner.
I expect the same from you. We can discuss our preferences in advance as well as keep the lines of communication open during our session. I will not be requesting any terms of endearment from you, but you may ask if there's a pet name you'd like to call me.

Discussion topics:
I want to keep our conversation natural and organic. If either of us brings up a topic that makes the other uncomfortable, I want us both to be able to ask politely to change the subject.
If conversations of a sexual nature come up, I am fine to discuss our own personal preferences and experiences but NOT anything to do with sexual contact between the two of us.

Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions, and we can book a session!