C•••••e
1 year ago
I like that Eli made sure to address right away when we met if I had any boundaries for our cuddle session and made sure to express theirs. But mostly our session was just experimental and flowy with a finale of being in a trance when we got the most wonderful position right. If I missed something in our initial talk it was easy to then bring up again later when I realized I didn't want that specific thing whatever it was. I felt they really cared and held space for listening to my reasoning for seeking a session and were understanding that I was there to explore my own needs and boundaries. Eli's voice is particularly soothing to me and they have such a nice way of making me feel heard and held. They have a grounded, gentle way about themselves that is so approachable and makes talking easy. Eli was also forthcoming and transparent around common topics that may come to mind around cuddling in general during our conversations so I felt they were really open to gaining perspectives or discussing any insecurities I may have had. They also seemed to confidently hone that cuddling itself is a respectable profession for them personally and that made me feel very safe. They entertained all my weird questions without bias. It was a safe space to navigate how we could try interesting positions or touch and as I navigated what was comfortable and appropriate. I felt very at ease. During our session I seemed to be a bit hyper or giddy so I wondered if my need to test various positions was too much, but that was received well too.. they had a nice way of recoiling me and doing some thing to my head and neck that seemed to put me in a trance, and I did wind up falling asleep! Eli is receptive to silliness and loved laughing with me during our session while equally being so serene during the quiet chunks. When the alarm went off I was cranky and didn't want it to be over. We cuddled for multiple hours and I think I could cuddle for days on end.