About me
AUGUST 2026 UPDATE:
👉 Tentatively back on this site. Slowly sorting through the messages in my inbox (there are several month’s worth of them) and replying to the more promising ones. 👈
Please note that I only respond selectively to messages, based on the quality of your communication. I’m a deep and thoughtful person, and I’m seeking people who share these attributes. Quick and careless messages, I ignore, it’s part of my filtering system. Even though cuddle dates are platonic, they are still intimate, in their own way. Hence my requirements, about compatibility with who I cuddle with. To build a connection with me, you have to be willing to talk about yourself, to go a little deeper than small talk. So please convey meaningful information about yourself in your introductory message, or in your profile. If you don’t, your message will be deleted and I’ll block you. Thank you.
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ABOUT ME:
Intelligent, witty, kind, sensitive, respectful. I’m an attentive listener. Empathetic. INFJ. Left leaning. I care about social justice issues. Highly sensitive person (a “HSP” for short) in the Elaine Aron school of thought.
My interests include: my dog (and cute pets and animals in general). Esoterica (witchy, pagan, gothic, dark academia). Alternative and counter culture. Downshifting. Minimalism. Self-sufficiency. Psychology, sociology. Health and medical topics. Swimming, bushwalking, camping, op-shopping. Architecture and urban exploration. Libraries, art galleries, museums - exploring new venues in general.
If I don’t see any compatibility in our character or interests, then I won’t consider cuddling with you. I’m selective about who I spend time with. Bland profiles and cliched communication I ignore. I used to reply to be polite, but hundreds of times over, and I no longer bother. If you can’t or won’t communicate with me in a meaningful way, then I don’t owe you a reply.
Please have a photo on your profile, or send one in your introduction. No photo = blocked. I’m happy to share my face pic in a private message.
I’m open to cuddling with men or women (or other identifying). What’s important to me is that you are open, friendly and empathetic, someone who I can imagine interacting with freely and comfortably, during the time that we spend together.
No smokers, please. Sorry, I dislike the smell. Generally speaking, excellent hygiene is a must. I’m sensitive to smells. And no cologne, please, for the same reason. Soap and deodorant smells are plenty, thanks.
I’m located near Petersham (inner west Sydney).